1. Understanding children's psychology: Parents should pay attention to learning more about adolescent rebellious psychology and fully understand the psychological characteristics of children in this period. By understanding the potential factors of children's performance, we can avoid unwarranted accusations and give children more care and love;

2. Avoid compulsion: In adolescence, children's self-concept is taking shape. At this time, they need to be recognized and supported by others, so parents should avoid managing their children in a coercive way and not label their children as rebellious;

3. Be good at analyzing children's demands: pay attention to understanding and supporting children, especially for children's demands, and respond and discuss after careful consideration. Whether we support or oppose it, we need to give our children a sufficient reason to fully understand the views of adults;

4. Respect the child's decision: As long as it is a decision related to the child, you must communicate with the child in advance, understand the child's thoughts and opinions in time, and avoid forcing the child to accept the unilateral decision of the adult;

5. Encourage children more: pay attention to discovering children's strengths. In life, no matter whether children study well or not, we should encourage them and explore their other strengths and advantages.