A few days ago, I was lucky enough to listen to the wonderful lectures of 100 national education experts, which benefited a lot. I have encountered many cases in my daily work, especially some unconventional practices. The following are some examples I have encountered in the work of the class teacher in recent years to share with you.

First, don't run around bad students, sometimes even deliberately snubbing them.

Bad students don't become bad in a day. Before you, I don't know how many teachers broke their brains for him. Want to change him at once, it's really daydreaming. As for him, in the process of struggling with the teacher for many years, he is more experienced and more enjoyable every day, so he will make waves when he calms down for a few days. If you run around him, you will only be cheated by him. I met such a student. When I first took over the fifth grade, I was told to pay attention to him. I smiled. At the beginning of school, he and several other students cleaned the classroom hard. I praised several other students at the class meeting and didn't praise him. He's confused. In the past, the teacher praised him for doing good deeds. Why didn't he do it today? He looked at me, and I looked at him and pretended that nothing had happened. Some people may say that you should seize the opportunity to praise him for his positive work, hehe, in fact, I have long known that he is a carrot and stick guy, and your little praise doesn't work at all, so you might as well not praise him. I usually ignore him instead of praising him. When he was around, I talked and laughed with my classmates, but I didn't say a word to him. Must he sleep in class? Go to sleep. Didn't hand in your homework? Whatever. A little friction with my classmates? Criticize that classmate severely in front of the whole class, that is, don't criticize him, don't even mention his name or look at him. He himself felt my indifference to him, and everyone saw it. At this time, he can't fathom your temper, and may gradually become honest, or he may continue to challenge you. However, if he continues to challenge you, his arrogance will be much shorter first. You have won the first battle, and you will try to deal with him in the future.

Second, teach him a lesson by the strength of others (including parents)

Now some students are so hateful that they come to trouble every now and then. If you educate him, it is equivalent to scratching him, but you can't hit him. If you criticize him too much, he will go back and pick what is good for him, and his parents will come. You are very satisfied. Why bother? I met such a person. I know from the side that his father is a very rude person, and I am waiting for my chance. Finally, one day, the opportunity came. He didn't come to class one afternoon. When other teachers told me, I guessed that he might have gone to the Internet cafe. The later he comes home, the more afraid he is. He sleeps in the home of one of his best classmates at night. After two classes in the afternoon, I called his father and said his son didn't come to school. The teacher looked everywhere in the street, but couldn't find it. And said in a speculative tone that he would not be abducted by bad people? He also said that the world is hard to say. You have seen many such cases on TV. Come out and find it yourself Just don't mention that he may be at another classmate's house, let alone give him the phone number of that classmate's house. As a result, his father searched all relatives and friends' homes and all internet cafes on his motorcycle, and found it at 2-3 in the middle of the night. He was exhausted and angry. Ha, of course he can't find it! The next day, he came to school. As I estimated, he really slept at that classmate's house last night. Hehe, even if he runs away, you are not responsible. You didn't hit him or scold him. What is your duty? His father is here, too. Call him when you see him. I said stop fighting, but my feet didn't move a step. After that, he never dared to play truant again. Hehe, it was his father who hit him. No matter how he hits him, it's none of my business! However, this trick cannot be used often. If you really hit hard, you still have to go up and pull. It doesn't work when you meet educated parents. But then again, parents are educated and children are not so hateful.

Third, let small things escalate into big things, and then use the topic to play.

Some students are also very smart, and he can master a degree of doing bad things in class. Big things are no small things. Playing this today and playing that tomorrow will make you brain-dead. At this time, you should observe whether he has any weaknesses and what you can use. If you find something you can use, seize the opportunity immediately. When I first took over the fifth grade, there was a student, tall and big, who was always hitting people. I tried other methods, but none of them worked. Later, it was discovered that he was just another classmate in the class who dared not fight, because that classmate was also tall and burly. They had a fight in the fourth grade before, and he didn't take advantage of anything. He was a little flustered when he saw this classmate, but now he has ruled it out when he meets him. Hehe, here comes the opportunity. On the pretext that many students asked for a change of position, I made a big adjustment to the position of the whole class, but I arranged for them to sit together and moved the two extra tables in the class, so as not to leave any space. When changing places, they look at me and I look at you, and no one wants to sit down. I pretended not to know anything and said why. Whether you sit or not, there is no other place. He hinted that they had fought before and would fight together now. I told you, during the war, both countries should sit down and negotiate, not to mention you, sitting together like this. Haha, there is a good show!

One day a week later, I was sitting in my office, and a student ran to the office to report that they were playing so hard that other students couldn't tear it open. I told my classmates who came to report that I would come right away. After the students left, I wandered around the office for a long time before I walked over. Why dawdle? Let them play for a while. Generally speaking, this kind of fight won't be a big problem, and it will suffer from a little flesh at most. You rushed as fast as you could, and they stopped as soon as they saw you. It's useless I went, stood at the door of the classroom, didn't walk over, didn't make a phone call, just watched them play calmly. When they found me, they made an awkward truce. When they get to the office, they will blame each other for their mistakes and exaggerate their injuries. Hehe, this is what I want. Hurt, right? I called their parents and asked them to take them to the hospital. How black-hearted hospitals are now. At first glance, there are hundreds of them. If you do CT or something, the price will be even worse. Finished reading it? Give me the receipt of medical expenses, and I'll deal with how much you should pay. You refuse to accept my handling? Ok, then I'll give it to the student affairs office and let them handle it. You don't accept the handling of the student affairs office? Go to the police station yourself. Still not satisfied? You can sue in court yourself. Hehe, pay for it! Is to let you suffer a little bit, but also let you heartache that money! That's weird. Later, this classmate seldom fought with other classmates, so he taught me well. No matter how they fight, I am not responsible. I arranged for them to sit together but I didn't arrange for them to fight!

Fourth, don't call your parents easily.

Some class teachers are really responsible, especially women, who take out their mobile phones from their bags for trivial matters and post their own phone bills. It is a compliment to say that you are in charge, and don't be unhappy if you say that you have no confidence at all. Really, you, the head teacher, can't handle this? Think about it, every time he gets a phone call, it's such a trivial matter. Will he pay attention to your phone in the future? Most parents in rural areas have low academic qualifications and do not attach importance to their children's education. His principle in dealing with conflicts between children and others is that his children will not suffer. If it is a student's own problem, he will cooperate with you in an understatement. If his children have problems with others, he will help his children and even get angry with you. It's no use inviting such parents.

Besides, you always call your parents, and the students themselves are exhausted! Seeing my parents help me will make me fearless. I called my parents when I had a serious fight involving medical expenses. What should I do at ordinary times? If it is a small matter, I will ask the students to write a manual with a requirement of 500 words. The first part is about what happened, the second part is about their understanding of this matter, and the third part is about their future plans. Write a crime once, number it every time, save it, and settle the accounts with him then. Instructions accumulate to a certain extent. Well, invite his parents again through the last incident and show him the instructions he wrote one by one. At this time, parents have nothing to say, so they can only take him back and teach him a lesson. Also, don't threaten him at ordinary times. I'll call your parents. You said it many times without actually calling, and he won't be afraid that your temper will be touched by him.

Fifth, let him pay the corresponding price for his mistakes.

I am surprised that the current education authorities punish students for running several laps on the playground, which is called corporal punishment. Keeping an hour of physical activity every day is called strengthening students' physique, and criticizing students is called mental punishment. How do you ask us to work as teachers, especially the head teacher? At home, he is a little emperor. At school, he is protected by such a deformity. In this way, our next generation will become a spoiled generation! Are there still few such little Taibao sisters in school society now? When studying, you can't punish this and that. How can he abide by the law when he goes into society in the future? Look at Korea. Their laws allow teachers to punish students, and the system is very detailed. The high quality of Koreans is largely due to the system, so it is natural for South Korea to become the four little dragons in Asia. I want to punish that student. I just want him to know that he is responsible for what he has done, and he will pay the corresponding price if he makes mistakes. Of course, I will not punish indiscriminately, but decide the severity of punishment according to the degree of mistakes.

For example, if you walk into many classrooms now, it will be miserable. What should you do? First, reform the classroom health duty system. In the past, four people were arranged on duty every day, but as a result, the old saying that three monks had no water to eat was accepted. You expect him to do what he expects you to do, and no one is responsible for not cleaning the ground. I made the duty standard of the classroom clear, and even showed the students how far it takes to clean the blackboard. You also reduced the number of students on duty from four to one. Today, all the hygiene in the classroom is yours. If you can't do it well, I will punish you! Some people say that how can he be busy alone? Don't worry, he will ask other students for help, and he will also help other students when they are on duty. I also cultivated their spirit of unity and mutual assistance! Some students are perfunctory when on duty, and others are punished for littering when on duty! Sweep for three days in a row, sweep for a week if three days are not enough, and sweep indefinitely if one week is not enough until I tell you to stop! You can sweep the campus without sweeping the classroom. The campus is very big. Just point to a place for him to sweep until he asks you to forgive him! Of course, you didn't just say you were punished. You should check when he is punished, so that he will be afraid of your punishment. Punish a few people, and the latter will be fine. Believe it or not, walking into my classroom now is absolutely neat and clean.

Sixth, we should save face for bad students.

Some students are bad, but they are still proud. Sometimes you can lose face at all, and sometimes you have to save face, otherwise it will be more troublesome to go against you. Once, a teacher gave me a notebook he handed in from a student, which was full of thoughts about a girl, similar to pornographic novels. Children nowadays really mature very early. I stuffed my notebook into the drawer and went to class as usual as if nothing had happened. A few days have passed, and I haven't looked for him yet, but I am quietly observing him. As for him, he knew that the notebook was in my hand, but I didn't move it, and I didn't know what medicine I was selling. He was honest.

A week passed, and after a class, I seemed to say casually, come to my place. When he came, I took out his notebook and said that your handwriting was scrawled and you couldn't read it clearly. Then I dug up the most ambiguous words and asked him to read them to me. Naturally, he blushed and said nothing. I told you, it's normal for you to think this way. It is also a natural reaction for a boy to arrive at 12-3, but you always think that she is wrong. If you think too much about this, you won't care. After such education, I returned his notebook. This has become a "secret" between me and him, and it has also become the reason why he is afraid of me, hehe. If you take his notebook to class, or tell his parents that something will happen in nine cases out of ten, he will still hate you for life.

Seven, to be a class teacher, you should leave yourself a posterior approach.

For example, the deliberate snubbing of students mentioned above is not always snubbing until the end, but you should be enthusiastic about him after a period of time. Being cold to him is to make him feel a contrast and remind him not to take politeness as a blessing. By the way, this student was very enthusiastic when he saw me entering junior high school. He saw me coming to say hello in the street. To tell the truth, don't look down on these so-called bad students. These people are people with strong organizational skills and many tricks. They will be more promising than you as a teacher in the future!

So our head teacher should tell him that when he is your student, he should be afraid of you and not hate you. Why should he be afraid of you? To put it bluntly, it is nothing more than making your work smoother and less troublesome. When he doesn't commit a crime, you should talk and laugh with him more-smile, don't laugh, smile without the dignity of the teacher is ineffective. Look at his merits more, and don't be stingy when praising him, as if he had never been punished. Shortly after graduation, all the punishments he received when he was studying were cancelled, which made him feel that you were actually very kind to him. When you meet him in the street after his graduation, don't think you are still his teacher, pretend to be one. He called you, you can go there at first, that was when he was still your student, and now it's impossible. You can say hello to him before he sees you. He'll be flattered. If time permits, stop and talk to him more often, ask him how he is doing, and don't forget to praise him. Even if he is praised for growing taller, he is happy. Praise him for being much more mature than before, and he will be happier and will speak well of you behind your back!