Love children moderately. When a child shows an arrogant attitude in front of his parents, parents must stop him and tell him that it is wrong and not allowed at home, but at the same time, parents should also correctly guide and educate their children so that they can know how to release and express their negative emotions. Parents should respect the elderly at home, be considerate of their partners and let their children feel that their parents are giving love to the people they care about. If parents are rude at home, children will learn from their parents to "criticize their families" and "leave their bad temper to the people they love the most"!
Some parents, especially grandparents, are particularly afraid of their children crying. They think that the moment a child cries is a moment of extreme pain, but crying is actually just an outlet for their emotional expression, or a way for them to protest against their parents. For example, he especially wants to buy a toy in the mall. You don't agree. He began to cry and make a scene. At this time, you need to walk up to him, hold him, let him calm down slowly, and then tell him calmly that his mother knows that you are very sad now. Slowly, he found that your principles will not be shaken by his crying, and the children will not continue to threaten you with crying. At the same time, teach children to express their feelings in words and tell them that it is normal for people to have emotions.
Parents should create more opportunities for their children and take them out to play, and children will naturally exercise their behavioral ability. When a child conflicts with other children, as long as there is no danger, there is no need for parents to intervene. Let children solve it first, which can cultivate children's sense of responsibility and self-confidence and avoid children's excessive dependence on their parents.