Many parents themselves are not necessarily strong, and it is definitely more difficult to cultivate such children.
1) Parents pay enough attention to make their children feel safe.
A sense of security is the source of a person's internal quality and external motivation. Parents' active concern will give children a sense of security, which will accompany them all their lives, giving them more confidence and courage to contact the outside world and more motivation to work hard. ?
2) Ask children more, instead of preaching, so that children love to think and have their own views on everything.
Allow children to discover and ask questions. When children ask questions that adults may seem naive, don't ignore them or throw cold water on them. Encourage the child, guide him to think for himself and find out the answer to the question.
People who can think independently will have their own judgments about everything. When they meet important choices in life, they will not follow the trend, drift with the tide, be kidnapped by others' will, and keep their own opinions and inner firmness.
3) Allow children to make mistakes and keep curiosity and desire to explore.
When children grow up, they always want to try different things. The process of trial and error is the source of children's life experience. Don't deprive children of the right to experience and make mistakes. Some things don't violate social rules and won't hurt others and themselves. Why not respect their wishes?
Only through experience can we form our true feelings and learn from them, instead of listening to other people's opinions.