1. Gentle communication:
-Establish positive and gentle communication with children. Express your concern, not criticize or blame. Make sure they know that you care about their development.
2. Make clear rules:
-Define family rules and boundaries, and tell your children what you expect. Rules should be reasonable, understandable and must be implemented.
3. Consequences and rewards:
-let children know that their actions will have consequences. This can include appropriate punishment, but it also emphasizes the reward of positive behavior.
4. Establish consistency:
-Maintain a consistent approach to education. Parents should be consistent and don't let their children feel confused or take advantage of contradictions.
5. Sense of educational responsibility:
-Help children understand that their actions have an impact on themselves and others, and encourage them to take responsibility.
6. Explain morality and values:
-Guide children to think about the importance of morality and values. Discuss important concepts, such as honesty, respect and empathy.
7. Example behavior:
-Take your own behavior as an example to show wise and moral behavior.
8. Time management and self-discipline:
-Help children build time management and self-discipline and improve their sense of negative responsibility.
9. Patience and understanding:
-Understand that children may make mistakes, be patient, provide guidance and support, not punish them.
10. Seek professional help:
-If the child's behavior problem is very serious or lasts for a long time, you can consider seeking the help of a professional psychological counselor or educator.
The most important thing is to establish a close support relationship and let children know that you are their supporter, not their enemy. Education takes time. Don't expect to see changes immediately, but persistence will have a positive impact.