Nowadays, many children are the treasures of the family, but there are still a few parents who are "disgusted" with their children and indifferent to them. Children who grow up in such a family are usually very fragile, with low self-esteem and withdrawn personality. They suspect that others may hate themselves and abandon others first.

2. The requirements for children are perfect. In some families, no matter how children behave, they can't meet their parents' expectations. Parents keep asking their children to "do better next time". Children who grow up in such a family are constantly demanding of themselves, and they don't know how to appreciate the advantages of others, nor do they know how to tolerate and understand the "shortcomings" of others.

3. Neglect of care

It is not easy to raise children now, which requires a lot of capital investment. Therefore, some parents are too busy with work or livelihood to take care of their children, thus ignoring their spiritual and life needs. Children who grow up in such a family are more difficult to establish intimate relationships with others, have no sense of belonging, lack self-awareness and are prone to negative emotions.

4. Too much nagging

Some parents nag endlessly and are used to giving orders to their children, or telling them over and over again, or arranging their children's life details in detail. Children have no chance to decide their own affairs. Children who grow up in such a family have poor autonomy, are not spontaneous and take the initiative, and are used to listening to other people's instructions.

5. Too strict education

Now many parents still think that the dutiful son is born under the stick. If they want their children to have hope in the future, corporal punishment education is inevitable. Children who grow up in such a family are used to looking at other people's faces, usually afraid to express their ideas, afraid of punishment and lacking self-confidence. Some parents want to be "good parents" in their children's minds.

Step 6 be responsive

Some parents even try their best to meet their children's requirements, although some of them are unreasonable. Children who grow up in such a family are often headstrong and grumpy, and like to be self-centered and ignore the feelings of others.

7. overprotect children. Some parents consider everything for their children. Usually, children will make various arrangements for their children before they speak. Children who grow up in such a family are often not interested in the people and things around them, but want others to love them. When they feel a little unhappy, they will feel wronged, as if others owe him.