1, personality: sensitive and fragile
Depressed education will make children form sensitive and fragile personalities. Repressive education is an authoritative and arbitrary parenting style in family rearing, which will make children form a cowardly character. Usually criticized by parents, they will be more sensitive to external stimuli.
Being belittled and denied by parents since childhood, children may be very lost and sad as long as they are said a few more words by classmates and teachers. Even if it is only an unintentional sentence sometimes, it may make children feel extremely depressed because they are too sensitive.
2, personality: inferiority and loneliness
If parents often say to their children, "You are too stupid, you are not doing well." Children are often beaten like this. After a long time, children will feel that they really can't do anything well, and they are easy to deny themselves and doubt themselves.
This inferiority complex will also cause social problems for children. If you underestimate your ability too much, you will feel unattractive in social activities, which will make it difficult for children to deal with interpersonal relationships and become withdrawn.
Psychological label effect can explain this phenomenon well. When children are labeled as "stupid" and "incompetent" by their parents, they will have a matching self-impression.
Parents, in particular, are as important to children as authoritative figures, so parents' degradation and suppression of children will make them feel more inferior, so children have difficulties in interpersonal relationships and become withdrawn.
3. Thought: Rebellion has no opinion.
Children who grow up in a repressive educational environment may have two extreme situations in their minds.
One situation is mental rebellion, especially after puberty. At this time, the child's mind is gradually mature, and the power of self-awareness is getting stronger and stronger, which will produce rebellious psychology and rebellious thoughts.
For example, I often quarrel with my parents and everything is against them.
On the other hand, children are used to being hit because they have no definite ideas. Learned helplessness people think: "I will be denied anyway, so I will say nothing and just listen to them." Such children have weak autonomy.