I came home from Shenzhen at the end of 2007, and Mr. Renshan established a love relationship with Wen, the daughter of the villagers' group in Xinghui Village, Baitian Town, Xiangxiang, Hunan Province. Repeatedly stressed that Wen is a good sister, and also stressed to my parents that she is a big yellow flower girl, good in all aspects, a little tempered but her hair is not messy. In view of Wen Renshan's good relationship with my father and his uncle, I certainly believe him. When I went to Wensheng's house to play, her mother, Ms. He, told me that she was very strict and serious about her daughter's education. She said, "Our family has never been fooling around with men and women like the daughter of a family in Shang Ping. If it were my family, I would tell her never to go home. Xiang Shengnan went to Dongguan to work, and his father ran and managed all the way, taking care of his daughter while working nearby. I've heard adults say that, and of course I'll listen to them.
So, in view of what the matchmaker and Katsumoto's mother said, I was sure Katsumoto was a good sister, so I got engaged to Vincent's "girl". After the engagement, his father said that his daughter had been detained by the Public Security Bureau for dozens of days, because it was no wonder that she worked in a restaurant and showed pornographic videos. Two days after the engagement, Sheng Nan came to my house to play and help. She didn't come home one night and slept with me. As a result, she found that she was not a big yellow flower girl at all, and her vagina could not be looser. I asked her, and she said it was physical education class's fault. I think this reason is far-fetched. She went on to say, "virgins are hard to find now. One tenth can't be found, and I have to go to kindergarten. " Then I went on to say that so-and-so girl in Shang Ping is the same, but the man's family is too poor to wait. I am speechless. After a few days, I always felt that she had a lot of sexual experience, so I pretended to be uncomfortable and said, "Tangke, I feel more comfortable if you tell me the truth." If you don't tell the truth, I always guess it is very uncomfortable. " She said to me, "I will tell you, but don't put this in my mouth in the future." Then he told me that he had sex with a man in Zhuzhou. But I didn't like her big belly, so I inevitably asked her why she was so big. The previous photos were so slim, and she also said that she was not confident in drinking beer. Then I said that she had to drink with others as a quality inspector in the factory, because she didn't drink with others, so her work was not recognized. This is a big question. Then I said hobbies. Her favorite thing turned out to be dancing in the hall, and then she talked about her romantic past. One night, a boy spent thousands of dollars on shopping, entertainment, buying a gold ring, picking up her father, Mr. Wen Fei, for dinner and so on. My heart is sour. On second thought, as long as you are virtuous, you will be good to me in the future. I don't care about your past, so just live with me in the future. Then I went to work in Shenzhen.
A few days later, my father was diagnosed with nasopharyngeal carcinoma, and the doctor informed him to do radiotherapy. The family are very worried about this matter, and they are worried that radiotherapy will do great harm to their father's health. Sheng Nan took out a newspaper advertisement saying that her aunt in Qingdao was very good at acupuncture, and then her family came. Her grandmother and her whole family said that menstruation could be cured, and then called menstruation to make sure. It happened that Sheng Nan was going to his aunt's house in Qingdao, so his father also took care of my father. All three of them flew to Qingdao at my expense. As a result, menstruation is not sure when she will arrive in Qingdao. She suggested that my father check it again, which delayed my father's treatment time for more than 0/00 days, but my father still gave her aunt 1000 yuan. Then Mr. Wen Fei accompanied my father to visit Beijing, stayed in a good hotel, smoked well, drank a bottle of several hundred dollars of good wine, and accompanied my father to travel around. The matter was put aside for the time being.
I came home from Shenzhen to help and learn more about Sheng Nan. Nothing happens every day, and the small business in the shop at home is not very busy. Somehow, my mother always likes Sheng Nan. She always tells me to let her go, but Sheng Nan always tells me that she can't get along with my mother. Just a few days after we met, she called me and said, "If your mother always plays cards, in the future. After marriage, money can't be caught by your parents and so on. " At home, she always speaks ill of my mother. Now at home, I find that she always looks down on my mother and always makes trouble in front of me. I know she wants me to be on her side. I don't care about her either. I think she is too young to understand. I will educate her at night and say that she will remain the same after a few days. Once my beard was crooked, she told everyone, "I quarreled with him every day when I got married and played cards." On another occasion, with a crooked beard, she also shouted, "You are a ghost who stays at the table every day." . Scared off all my guests. I didn't care about her either, so I'd better tell her. She said why not accompany her, but who knows my difficulties? What should I listen to when chatting with her? They all listened to her gossip and told everyone in her parents' apartment. She said that the girls in the apartment are either prostitutes or men and women fooling around outside, and it is difficult to tell one from the other. Anyway, it means that her family are all good people. Surprisingly, she told my mother that her father was out whoring with women and had a son who wanted to divorce her mother. Her mother may not know yet, saying that her family hates her grandmother. Her mother gave birth to three daughters, and one daughter was taken away by disabled people from other places. Now 18 years old still wants to kiss her. Few relatives in her family are kind to her family. Speaking of matchmakers, her uncle Wen Renshan once quarreled with her family.
However, she always loses her temper with me and goes home at the slightest thing. Because she didn't come in, it's not good for me not to answer, and it's not good for me not to answer. So every time I go to her house, I have to give way to her, get scolded by her, let her scold, scold me, slap me and so on. So I have to ask her to tell her afterwards. Father is ill, so we can't let his old man know and worry, because worry will affect the treatment.
My father flew home from Beijing and went to Changsha for treatment one day. I have an appointment with Katsuo to pick up my father. Father never knows everything, and he still likes Kato very much. He called and said Katsuo had to pick him up, too. It rained that day, so I called a taxi. I asked Katsuo to polish my shoes. She roared, "Don't tell me, hahaha, did you make Mozi?" I'm afraid I won't get used to wetting you. "Richard ignored me, and my mother looked at me and stood there, saying that she cleaned her shoes, so I took it myself. Later, my mother came to clean them, and Sheng Nan listened in the corner. When she heard my mother say why I didn't stay in the army and find a good one, it wouldn't be like this, so she packed her things and went home angrily. I had to take my father back from Changsha with my mother.
After my father came back, we didn't tell him these things, and then I went to pick up Katsumoto. A few days later, Katsumoto and I sent my father to Changsha for hospitalization. The doctor in Changsha said that my father's illness was not contagious, but when Katsumoto was with me, he told me about my father's infection and said, "You have this disease in the same room." My father won't wash clothes unless he tells her. Every day he just doesn't want to do anything with me. I finished my father's hospitalization, rented a house, bought what I should buy, and went home with Sheng Nan. My mother will take care of my father. Sheng Nan told my mother about the infection. We all ignored her and forgave her ignorance. But she also told me and my mother that her mother, Ms. He Lianghui, was late for tea. The fairy asked if your daughter was engaged? If you are engaged, you won't break the bridge, but it's not good for two people to be together. Even if they get married, something big will happen. When I heard Katsuo say this, I was wondering what your late tea meant. Do you want my family to take you back? Your family is so relaxed? Did your mother send you to talk? My family is not a fool. I was cheated by your mother. I asked for a fake yellow girl It doesn't matter. Now you're lying to me.
Then it was just me and Katsuo at home. She got even with me: "Either you cook or you do business, I won't do anything with you." I have to say that I am in business. Fortunately, I didn't hurt anyone these days, and I didn't lose my temper, but once a guest came to his house, she took the food in the refrigerator home without saying anything. I didn't say anything. It doesn't matter. My father will go home for two days on Friday afternoon, and there will be no treatment on weekends. When he came back, she kept a straight face, as if my father would be infected when he came back. Then her cousin asked her to play in Xiangxiang Street, and her heart flew. She asked her cousin to talk to me on the phone. Because my father was in poor health and not in the mood to play, I politely refused her cousin's invitation. Just as I was about to hang up, she grabbed the phone and asked her cousin to pick her up in the car, and then she asked me to go. I said there was something at home, I went to do business, and she went to Xiangxiang to play alone. I was crazy all night and didn't come back to my house until dark the next day. I said hello to my father and went home for fear of being infected. I didn't pick her up either, because there were too many things at home, because her family was late for tea, so this can be considered later.
Since then, I have been cooking and doing business at home alone, but I am also very calm. It's been almost half a month, and Vincent's family has been sending someone to ask me to pick her up. You told me about late tea. My parents are in Changsha Hospital again, so I have to think about it. I always need some time. There are so many things at home. This matter must be shelved. Everybody just wait. People asked me what she would do when she got home. I have to wait until my parents come back. I have the same answer to the matchmaker.
Who would have thought that Wen Fei would fish in troubled waters at home last night? My parents are busy with treatment, so I have to take care of the family business. His family sent someone to force me to get a marriage certificate several times, or my sister would get married. Wen Wei wanted to be a matchmaker, but I didn't reply, so I forced him every other day or two, saying that there would be no refund or something. Besides, my parents were busy treating and saving lives, and Wen Fei came home very late. Fellow villagers, comment and be reasonable!
Later, I called my parents in Changsha and told them that my father was ill and didn't tell him everything. When my mother saw that he was getting better, she told him about the woman's late tea. My parents called Wen Renshan, the matchmaker, and asked if the two families could stop for a while and think about it until they came back after a month's illness. Wen Renshan said yes, but Wen Renshan put her uncle's words into his mouth and changed her family's situation. He told her that the man replied.
I haven't contacted for more than a month, and I haven't had any feelings during the Dragon Boat Festival. My father got well and went home to recuperate, so my family sent Wen Renshan, the matchmaker, to inquire about the situation. As a result, he said that his younger brother Wen Fei was a stumbling block, so he didn't want money. It means nothing to him, and there is no money to pay it back. So my family wants to slow down and let Wen Fei's family think for themselves.
After a while, the family really couldn't figure it out. My mother and I didn't believe it, so we went to Vincent's family and called the matchmaker Wen Renshan. At this time, they confessed, as if they had already planned it. They gnawed at my reply, and Wen Renshan gnawed at my two Mo's, saying that temporary two Mo's are two Mo's. At this time, they married Wen. It is said that they are engaged to someone else and took a lot of bride price money. What makes me even more angry is that their family is so unreasonable that they don't admit what they said in the past and even change the content of evening tea.
Later, I went to her mother's house to investigate and found that her family had a bad relationship with more than 90% of her neighbors, which reminded me that few neighbors came to her house when she was at home. She was an unwelcome family. Besides, my neighbor told me the truth at this time. No one said that her family was good, all of them were bad, and no one looked up to her family. Many of her neighbors who went to my store to buy things are now telling me the real situation at home. Some neighbors also said that if you have offspring with her, it may be an unwise species. I can't describe how I felt after hearing it!
But it is not easy for my family to earn more than 22,000 yuan. Almost 15000 cash to her home. Look how good this is for her. She came to my house for two months and charged her 400 yuan for her mobile phone. I don't know where there are so many boys calling her so much, and the pocket money is casual. She can do business in the store at will, manage the money in the store at will, take whatever she wants, and even put a pack of sanitary napkins in the bedside table. My mother cooks for her at home and doesn't drink milk for breakfast. Playing cards with my mother, watching her lose, deliberately losing money and giving it to two daughters. The solar terms and human feelings are not backward. Others said that she gained a lot of weight in my house. Now her family depends on it. I think it's absolutely impossible. I will insist on getting all the cash back, even if I pay all the money, it doesn't matter. One year is less than two years, and two years is less than three years. I have a way to make her family restless. Anyway, I have nothing to do with her family, and everyone nearby knows who our family is.
I hope everyone will stick to it when encountering similar situations! ! ! ! Not for money, but for breathing! ! !