In fact, there are only two kinds of negative news about students in China.
One is bullying in primary and secondary schools, and strong students beat weak students.
One is colleges and universities. Unlike bullying in primary and secondary schools, there are not many news about bullying in primary and secondary schools, but colleges and universities. Although the proportion of negative news of college students is far from that of primary and secondary schools, the negative news of college students is amazing.
Especially the principal type.
If you learn to bully people, it's like a contest between martial arts masters. If you don't do it, everything will be fine. If you do it, there must be five steps of blood spatter.
This also illustrates a problem, that is, the higher the IQ, the higher the educational level and the higher the means. Relatively speaking, bullying in primary and secondary schools is basically a group of young people who have no brains and want to do evil.
Classmates used to be called Friendship of Classmates. Even now, various alumni associations and homecoming are important platforms for keeping in touch. However, why are so many killers targeting classmates in recent years?
In fact, framing classmates is nothing new, not to mention Lin Senhao poisoning and Ma Jiajue killing roommates a few years ago, but the ancients-we often say that people are not old, but in fact the ancients did not say how kind:
1. For example, at the end of the Warring States Period, the king of Qin (later Qin Shihuang) appreciated the talent of everything done by Han Fei-zi (that is, the son of Korea), so he ordered Wang Han to send everything done by Han Fei-zi to the State of Qin, intending to reuse everything done by Han Fei-zi. This frightened the adult Reese, who became a high official in the State of Qin and was a student of Han Fei. So under the provocation of Reese, Qin Wangzheng executed Han Feizi;
2. Another example is the well-known story of Pang Juan hurting Sun Bin.
Therefore, it is nothing new for classmates to hurt each other. The reason for framing is basically the same, that is, jealousy of talents.
Including Lin Senhao poisoning, aren't they jealous of talents?
I believe readers and friends, each of you may meet jealous classmates when you were a student.
In this poisoning case of a 26-year-old doctor of chemistry, it seems that the perpetrators are not jealous, which is exactly what is worth studying.
According to news reports, the previous conflicts between the poisoner and the victim were all caused by trivial matters, and because of a trivial matter, the poisoner may be killed. There is no doubt that this will make every one of us feel creepy.
In fact, I think the poisoner may be a person with some psychological distortions and deformities, which also exposes two major drawbacks of China's education:
A person's primary and secondary school era is precisely the era when the world outlook is formed. During this period, if a person's psychology is stimulated and can't be relieved in time, then there is no doubt that this distorted psychology will drive him to do many anti-social things in adulthood. In fact, many criminals who commit violent crimes have different miserable childhood. Although the tragic circumstances are different, they are all tragedies.
For many years, China's primary and secondary education has been pursuing the theory of fractions-that is to say, although the "three good students" nominally look at the three levels of morality, intelligence and physical fitness, those who can actually be "three good students" have good academic performance, but their personality is not necessarily good.
Like when I was a kid! It was the 1990s, and the class cadre was a poor bully, but he did better in the exam, so he was loved by the class teacher.
And what can education without moral education ultimately cultivate?
Just a group of people who lack personality.
Of course, after all, the entrance exam only looks at scores, and other things are rarely concerned. Therefore, from the perspective of enrollment rate, it is reasonable for schools to ignore moral education.
In fact, whether it's the poisoning of the doctor of chemistry, or the poisoning of Lin Senhao, or even other tragedies like this, all tell us a truth, that is, don't be an optimist blindly, you should have a pair of eyes to discover people's hearts and master the ability to gain insight into a person's character and personality.
In this way, you can find the garbage people around you in the first time.
And after you find out, no matter how good your relationship with him is, try to be distant and draw a clear line.
Because garbage people have no value to ignore.
Even some garbage people only allow you to be worse than him, not to be better than him. Once you find that you are better than him and have a better life than him, the first thing the garbage man does is to try his best to harm you.