The 2022 special program "Lecture on Family Education for Primary and Secondary School Students" will be broadcast on Channel 1 of China Education Television (CETV 1) this Saturday morning. Did you get anything after reading it? The following are my comments on "Lecture on Family Education for Primary and Secondary School Students" (5 articles) for your reference!

First of all, I would like to thank the school for carefully arranging this family education lecture for our parents.

I benefited a lot from listening to _ _ _'s lecture. _ _ With simple language, the method of combining theory with practice, and my own personal experience, I taught our parents the matters that should be paid attention to in the process of educating their children, as well as the methods of education, which deeply moved me and deeply realized the responsibility and significance of parents, who were once parents and lifelong teachers. The key to education is to form good habits, communicate better with children and increase reading methods.

Parents are the first teachers of the children. Everything we say and do has a profound influence on children. Family harmony and strong family atmosphere are objective conditions for a child to grow up healthily. Let children establish an independent personality from an early age, and then pay attention to their mental health development. Although children are very young, they have strong self-esteem. He saw that adults' words and deeds were kept in mind, especially unfriendly accusations or complaints in front of outsiders, which would bring mental harm to children. After listening to this lecture, I have some experiences to share with you:

First, it is very necessary to have a good study and habit, which should be reflected in the details of life. To have good habits, we must first let children get used to thinking, give them enough freedom, and don't die too much, otherwise there will be rebellion in spirit. Be sure to start with small things when children are young, observe carefully, find bad behaviors in life in time, and correct and guide them; Give affirmation and encouragement to children's good behavior in life, make it a habit, and let children study and live with good habits.

Second, do a good job of communication with children. In parent-child communication, we should pay attention to scientific methods: First, we should be good at listening. Only by listening to children's hearts and understanding their thoughts and needs can we give them targeted care and help, and it will also make future communication easier. Children tell you happy things, you should be happy; When a child tells you unhappy things, you should let him vent and show sympathy. When a child tells you a topic that you are not interested in, you should listen patiently to show that you care about his conversation. In this way, not only will children be more willing to talk to you, but also their language skills can be improved. Secondly, parents should learn to be friends with their children. If parents are always above each other, it will be difficult for them to become bosom friends with their children and there will be no real communication. This requires parents to use their children's minds and talk to their children in a language that they can understand. Besides, be patient. There are great differences between parents and children in age, psychology, thoughts and feelings, and understanding needs a process. If you are too impatient, communication will become a bubble.

Third, we should cultivate children to read a lot. Reading is a learning method to broaden children's horizons and acquire knowledge. That is, an entertainment that brings infinite fun to children. Therefore, we must first create a strong reading atmosphere for our children. Let reading become a way of life for him, and let children feel that reading is a very happy thing. So at home, there is always a fixed time to read books every night, no matter what kind of books, to give him a head start and create a learning atmosphere. Slowly, children also like online reading. Reading has not only become a living habit, but also become our mentor.

After listening to this lecture, I benefited a lot and deeply realized the importance of family education, a big topic of educating children. Especially in the cultivation of children's character, it is not in place. At home, controlling children's behavior requires my consent or approval, which seriously hinders his imagination. Besides, there is impatience. Because of impatience and impatience, he not only spoke ill of his children again and again, but even hit them. When he saw the helpless and wronged eyes of the child, he woke up. He's just-he's just a kid. Experts say it really well: once you are a parent, you have to be a teacher for life. Therefore, from this moment on, start from yourself and start from every little thing, let the child have an independent personality and good habits, communicate with the child fairly, let him grow up happily and healthily, and let him become a knowledgeable person and a useful person to society.

I think children's education is the most important thing for every family. It is self-evident that every family pays attention to children's growth, but how can we pay attention to it? What's our point? How should we educate our children? How to guide our children? Let their lives develop in the right and positive direction. This is my confusion, and I believe it is also the confusion of many parents. On the third weekend of June 165438+ 10, I was lucky enough to listen to Professor Ping Cao's lecture on family education in Yangchuntang of Qingyuan Primary School, which benefited a lot.

Professor Ping Cao first talked about the ability of love. This is my understanding. In parent-child relationship, the love between parents and children is mutual, and both sides should feel it. Only when both sides feel each other's love can the expression of love be correct. In the process of children's growth, children must have the ability to give and feel love, and his life will be complete. And we often ignore this in our lives. It is often parents who strive to make money in order to create better conditions for their children, while children often complain about this and that, but turn a blind eye to their parents' hard work; Parents come home from work and are busy doing housework and cooking, while children still think that the food is not delicious and are picky; Parents left him the best food, and finally found that the delicious food could only be eaten by himself, but no one else could. Why? Teacher Ping Cao said it was caused by the wrong way of expressing love. This explanation made me suddenly enlightened. I think there is nothing wrong with us giving love to our children, and there is nothing wrong with our children, but we must make her feel that we love her and give her a chance to love us. Therefore, communication and expression in parent-child relationship are the most important.

In the lecture, _ _ also talked about the cultivation of pupils' habits: listening, speaking, writing, doing and thinking. I really have a headache for our little guy, especially the one who writes. I think her dependence on this rubber has reached a hopeless point. As long as she writes, she has to erase it if she can't write a few words, which seems to have become a habit. It's a waste of time, the exercise books are not clean enough, and the desks are always dirty. Professor Ping Cao said "just write", and I think she should receive individual training in this field.

Labor can cultivate a person's sense of responsibility. I am deeply touched by this. Our little guy likes to sleep late every weekend, and he can't get up until ten o'clock without screaming. I remember one weekend, probably 165438+ 10/3. I happened to have something to avoid that day. When she got up, she screamed that she was hungry. I said, buy it yourself. She jumped up excitedly, made a "yes" gesture and ran out. After she left, I followed her and watched her cross the road. She looked carefully at the left, then at the right, and then walked slowly until she came to the other side of the road. I am relieved to go home. After a while, she came back with some steamed buns and ate happily there. She also said excitedly: "Today is really lucky. As soon as there is no car on both sides of the road, it will pass immediately without delay. " In the next few weekends, it was after 8 o'clock every time. Before we adults got up, she quickly got up to buy breakfast. This situation has been going on for several weeks, and she has never slept again.

_ _ saying that children will be confident when they are affirmed is actually what is usually called appreciation education, but there are many examples of failure in life, such as children can't stand setbacks. This is a "degree" guarantee mentioned by _ _. Moreover, whether criticism or praise, there should be parents' wisdom of expression in it. A logical expression can only be effective if you and your child speak at the same level.

_ _ talked a lot and was very specific. In fact, what I learned from her wisdom is not specific methods, but more about educating my parents. The influence of family atmosphere on children, the influence of parents' values on children, and the influence of people around them on children. Parents are more important as role models. I think the child's life is ill-bred, but she came out on her own. On this road of life, how he should choose depends on her influence. It also reminds me of a sentence in the Tao Te Ching: "Every move is divided into yin and yang". Although it is about everything in the world, it means that every move and sentence of an adult will have both positive and negative results for children. If this behavior produces good results, it will produce positive guidance and mature education for children. If the reaction is negative, then this behavior is a negative guide to the child and a kind of destruction to her life. I believe parents feel the same way. If parents are too strict and overbearing, children will lie. If they lie, parents will criticize them more severely, which will eventually lead to children's rebellion. Therefore, parents should find the reasons for their children's problems instead of blaming them too much. So our education begins with having children, because children are a mirror for us. Here, I tell myself in one sentence: "Educate yourself, reflect on yourself, and then influence your children."

Thank you very much for listening to the lecture of _ _ _. Vivid language and extensive knowledge have a great influence on me. Although I can't fully understand her essence, I, we will certainly continue to work hard for the children's active and happy life.

Comments on Family Education Lectures for Primary and Secondary School Students 3 Every responsible parent wants to give his children the best gift. What is the best gift? From the perspective of children's growth, then a good family education is the best gift for parents to give their children.

In simple and popular terms, family education means that parents and family members educate and influence their children through their own words and deeds. Family education is everyone's first education when they come to this world. It is the first and foundation for human beings to receive all kinds of education. Suhomlinski, a famous educator in the former Soviet Union, agrees with this view. It can be seen that family education is important for a person's growth.

If a person receives a good family education from an early age, he will first lay a solid foundation for the good development of his children's life. This good foundation will benefit him for his future enrollment, starting to work until independence and getting married, which can be said to be a lifelong benefit! On the other hand, if a child does not receive a good family education, there will always be shadows and regrets in his life!

These remarks and reasons are not nonsense, but there are too many such things in the real society. Therefore, if you want to give a newborn child the best gift on the road to growth, then give him a good family education from the moment he is born, which is the best gift for growth. When the children grow up, they will understand the beauty and preciousness of this gift, which will be passed down like the continuation of blood.

Comments on lectures on family education for primary and secondary school students Part IV (1) Parents should set a good example for their children, schools should actively guide them, and both sides should make joint efforts.

We believe that to educate children well, we must first set an example. Parents are the best role models for children. Only when they do it themselves will the children follow suit. If you just preach and teach, but you can't be a role model for children, then this kind of education is just a treasure, and the education in it won't work at all. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results.

(2) Create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop conscious study habits.

My colleague told me that his daughter and niece were admitted to the university in the same year. His experience is to create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop a good habit of self-study. Every night after dinner, he and his wife go out for a walk. After the daughter and niece cleared the table, they went to do their homework. They went home. Children never watch TV when they are doing their homework. Everyone takes a book to read. After a long time, children will form a good habit of working and sleeping. Daughters and nieces often compare each other to see who studies well and who studies late. Last year, in the college entrance examination, both children passed the dream university with excellent results.

(3) Punish children appropriately, actively guide them and be their "good friends".

I remember when my son was a child, he once took money from his family and bought a lot of toys without his parents' consent. When we learned about it, we asked him to return the toy and gave him a good beating. He never made a similar mistake again. When my son was in the fourth grade, his handwriting was very poor. I asked him to rewrite the words with incorrect strokes 10 times. As a result, we quarreled. The son said that he had tried his best and it would be difficult to change for a while. I admitted my mistake to my son and pointed out that it was wrong for him to hit me. The son also admitted his mistake. Now my son and I sometimes chat like friends, which is quite fun.

Comments on lectures on family education for primary and secondary school students Part V: What parents do is the most important in the family education environment. Parents are children's mirrors, and children have strong imitation ability. Parents' words and deeds will exert a subtle influence on their children. Parents can be role models for children to learn all the time in their lives. How to take care of your own affairs, how to talk to people, how to treat friends, etc. These are all meaningful for children's education.

In the practice of family education, I think the most successful education method is positive success strategy. Positive means include praise, encouragement, praise and praise, which is in line with human nature. That was when my child was in primary school 1 grade. I just started to have formal homework. When my children finish their homework, I always ask too much. I say this word is not good, this place is too dirty. In a few days, the child's enthusiasm was gone. I don't want to do my homework. Later, my mother came to my house for a while, and the old man saw that I had been training my children and said; "It's good for children to start studying after school and do their homework consciously. Don't always ask your child to be too tall. " From then on, I followed the old man's advice. The old man's approval kept the children in the good habit of doing their homework first after school.

Solving shortcomings can sometimes easily hurt children's self-esteem. Don't criticize your child in front of others, and don't praise your child for saying negative things in front of others. I have a deep understanding of this direction, and this is the way my father educates himself, which hurts my self-esteem. At that time, if my father said I couldn't do it in front of others, I didn't show it, but I was very sad and rebellious, which caused my lack of confidence. This aspect may have a negative impact on children's life.