65,438+0 and 65,438+03-year-old children are in junior high school, in the growth and development period, with strong rebellious psychology, even disgusted with their parents, teachers and administrators. Therefore, it is not recommended that parents or teachers use traditional educational methods to force children to obey. We should change the way of educating children and grasp the measure of education.

If parents don't listen to their children, they often need years of treatment to restore their self-esteem when they grow up. Therefore, parents need to change the way I told you before, listen carefully to their children's voices, encourage their children to express their inner thoughts, understand and respect their thoughts, treat their children equally, and don't directly tell them what to do as an authority, but respect their decisions and protect their self-esteem.

3. If a 13-year-old child expresses his affection for the opposite sex, it is a normal emotion, and parents should not take a negative attitude towards it and treat their children in extreme ways, such as beating and cursing with wooden sticks and grounding. Instead, we should explain our interests to children, guide them to correctly understand puppy love, get out of it and return to normal study and life.