1. The so-called "eagle education" is an educational method that imitates the eagle in nature to train the baby eagle. There is a legend in nature: after the eagle gave birth to its baby eagle, its education was extremely harsh. When the baby eagle grows feathers and needs to fly, they will put it on the edge of the cliff and push it out, so that the baby eagle can learn to fly in the process of repeated fractures. Without this devilish training, the baby eagle will never learn to grow or fly in the warm embrace. Now people put this "education" way on children, thinking that only through strict training can children grow up and win at the starting line.
2. Unfavorable mental development: "Eagle Dad", an extreme education method similar to training animals, should not be publicized and popularized, and should not be copied. First, "eagle education" is very unfavorable to children's social training. Psychological research shows that good parent-child relationship and attachment relationship in early childhood not only contribute to the stable and healthy development of children's emotional and moral quality, but also can effectively predict future achievements. Children need the care of their parents. Children are different from children. They all have their own way to go. What's more, the first condition for cultivating children is to let them learn to live happily, which is more important than anything else. Even if it is an extreme example of educational success, it cannot be denied that success will still leave a psychological shadow on children. Every child is an independent individual with distinctive characteristics. Education cannot and cannot use a template.
3. Educating the family is a highly personalized matter, which should not be copied and criticized in vain. Can only say that what is suitable for children is the best. Obviously, this does not include the practice of "Eagle Dad". Extreme education that deprives children of happy warm experience and deviates from the original intention of education can no longer be called education. Unlike animals, human beings have emotional needs and experiences, and this almost harsh, cruel and even distorted way has no emotion at all. Once the so-called "education", which is seriously lacking in emotion, becomes a habit or a model, the intense experience of fear, pleading, helplessness and despair will accumulate continuously, which will certainly scratch the children's hearts, leave a shadow of memory and affect their healthy growth.