So, what should children do if they write their homework too seriously and too slowly? This article will provide you with reference from the following aspects.
First, explore the reasons.
First of all, we need to explore the reasons behind it. There may be many reasons why children do their homework too seriously and too slowly. It may be because the child is too nervous, or too demanding of himself, or it may be because the child has insufficient self-control and distraction, or even because the child has no interest and enthusiasm in what he is doing. The solution to each cause is different, so it is very important to understand the cause of the problem.
Second, make plans and goals.
Secondly, we need to make a plan and a goal. When we know the reasons behind it, we can make reasonable plans and goals according to the children's situation. For example, it takes an hour for children to review a new concept, but sometimes children will check their homework repeatedly. At this time, parents can tell their children that it takes one hour to master the concept and half an hour to check the homework, so the children need to finish it in 1.5 hours. Making specific plans and goals for children can help children better evaluate their workload and time, and also promote their learning efficiency.
Third, encourage positive behavior.
The third point is to encourage children's positive behavior. Parents don't want their children to feel pressure, anxiety and inferiority because they are too serious and slow to learn. Parents should discover their children's positive performance in time, including their faster completion of tasks and their joy and sense of accomplishment in learning. Parents should praise their children in time to enhance their self-confidence
Fourth, help children develop self-control.
Children do their homework too seriously and too slowly, which may be due to lack of self-control. Parents need to help their children develop self-control. When making goals and plans, we can also moderately increase the difficulty of goals and plans, gradually improve children's self-control ability, and cultivate children's patience and tenacity.
Fifth, pay attention to the correct education and teaching methods.
The most important thing is to pay attention to the correct education and teaching methods. Parents should not force their children to finish their homework at their own pace and speed, nor should they let their children be too slow and too serious. Parents need to provide their children with appropriate skills and methods according to their abilities and difficulties to help them complete their learning tasks.
In short, it is a problem for children to do their homework too seriously and too slowly. By rationally exploring the reasons, making plans and goals, encouraging positive behaviors, helping children to cultivate self-control and paying attention to correct teaching methods, children can be helped to tide over the difficulties in learning and get better growth and development.