The experience of warning education-the phenomenon of teachers' corporal punishment of students-the phenomenon of a teacher's corporal punishment of students is staged again. Undeniably, such corporal punishment does great harm to students, teachers and education.
First of all, it is undoubtedly the students who suffer the most. Primary school students are still minors, and their physiology and psychology are not mature enough. Teachers' corporal punishment can easily hurt their young bodies and fragile hearts. Such as the above cases, these children will leave a psychological shadow, and they may lose confidence and self-esteem because of this incident, thus giving up on themselves and wasting their lives. They may also be afraid of going to school and teachers because of this incident, and they dare not do anything at school, which makes it difficult for them to sprout wisdom, dare not express their opinions, and finally it is difficult for them to integrate into society. And those students who have been punished, some began to learn to solve problems with violence, some were spurned, and some fell into permanent inferiority. Corporal punishment does great harm to students, not only physically, but also depresses their intelligence, hurts their self-esteem and affects the healthy development of their personality. It can be said that it is harmful.
Secondly, corporal punishment is not without harm to teachers. Corporal punishment will greatly reduce the prestige of teachers and affect their reputation, and teachers will certainly pay the price for their bad behavior. The teacher's corporal punishment of students also fully reflects the teacher's incompetence. The real strict teacher is not a "penalty" teacher. Teachers who really love education know that the merit of "strict teachers make excellent students" lies in their rigorous attitude towards learning and knowledge, and they will use preaching instead of corporal punishment. Therefore, teachers who truly love education and students will never punish students, but will influence those desert hearts with smiles and love.
Excellent professional ethics, good working attitude and appropriate teaching methods are not only beneficial to teachers, but also play an important role in the healthy growth of students and the smooth progress of education and teaching. The formation of these excellent factors is inseparable from the educational concept. Therefore, in education, the subjective behavior of corporal punishment should not be advocated and must be opposed.
Warning, education, experience, teachers' corporal punishment of students II. Today, I saw a case in which a teacher physically punished a student. I realized, why do our teachers hate their students? Most cases of corporal punishment have serious consequences. The main reason is closely related to the quality of teachers. Due to various pressures and reasons, many teachers have certain psychological problems. Their attitude towards students is often very strict, which can easily lead to conflicts with students. Once it is found that some students don't listen to themselves, the pressure and anger accumulated in their hearts will come out in generate, and it is easy to make uncontrollable irrational behavior. Social concept is also one of the important reasons for the prevalence of corporal punishment.
Corporal punishment is common in rural areas of China, especially in China. On the one hand, it reflects the low quality of teachers, on the other hand, it is also the inertia embodiment of China's traditional educational thought of "strict teachers make excellent students". In addition, the phenomenon that the director of the senior high school entrance examination hangs high above the teacher's head also leads to the endless corporal punishment of students by teachers. Many rural parents think that it is understandable for teachers to hit people, just don't hit them too hard. Some students even take it for granted that teachers beat students, and think, "Isn't it for your own good that teachers beat you?" In addition, the disregard for legal concepts is also one of the reasons why corporal punishment is repeatedly prohibited. Some lawyers believe that there is still a lack of legal provisions and sanctions for corporal punishment of students in China. So it will lead to repeated corporal punishment. In countries with developed laws, no matter whether teachers, parents or other adults abuse children, the police or relevant departments will immediately intervene and deal with them according to law. In China, ordinary corporal punishment is not illegal.
Not enough to constitute a crime. It is generally believed that the teacher did not intentionally hurt, and most corporal punishment did not cause serious consequences. It is precisely because there is no corporal punishment of students that it is fair and reasonable at home and abroad. The old woman said that the old woman is right. Xx adopts laws to prohibit corporal punishment, but it is difficult for parents to accept it. They think it is necessary to slap children in the face in some cases. The xx government understands the pains of parents and agrees that parents can spank their children with their hands. What about the teacher? What should the teacher do if the students disturb the classroom discipline and the teacher's persuasion is ineffective? The real strict teacher is not a "penalty" teacher. A really good teacher who loves education and students will not physically punish students, but will take more effective ways to help them. Psychologists have already proved by experiments that affirmation of students is far more useful than "necessary corporal punishment". Negative or negative reinforcement of students' mistakes is also easier for students to accept and understand than direct punishment. Besides, teachers can't always think that only students are wrong, but they are absolutely right. Many mistakes do not just happen unilaterally.
In addition, it is necessary to punish students appropriately based on the principle of respecting personality. Adults should be punished by public opinion and criminal law, and children should be punished to some extent, so that they can know the consequences of making mistakes. He can know how to live correctly. But the first premise is to respect the child's personality, even if he makes a mistake, the second premise is to try to replace corporal punishment with appropriate punishment. The purpose of competition is to make him correct his mistakes, not to punish him.
Education is a long-term systematic project, not a quick success and instant benefit. Yes, some students are lazy, and the law on campus violence will make teachers make big mistakes unconsciously. We should use positive resistance to turn into the thrust of education, teach and educate people, and educate every student well.
The experience of warning education: the third part of teachers' corporal punishment of students. Our school specially held a meeting on "corporal punishment and corporal punishment in disguised form", and I felt a lot.
I watched several videos of teachers punishing students, which was really shocking. There are many ways for teachers to punish students, some of which have caused great harm to students' body and mind, and may also leave a lifelong mark on students' hearts. As a form of punishment, corporal punishment can not be equated with criticism, but is a completely different means of reinforcement. Criticism is a negative evaluation of students' mistakes or bad habits, and the positive guidance caused by it. Words can be fierce, emotions can be high, and expressions can be varied, but the starting point is good, which can arouse students' ideological resonance and emotional shock and help to change bad behavior. Punishment is more severe than criticism. There are many ways of education, corporal punishment is definitely not a good method, and the adverse consequences it brings are probably even more unacceptable. Excessive rudeness and corporal punishment to children will also hinder students' intellectual development. Children who grow up in love learn kindness, while children who grow up under the whip only produce hatred. Corporal punishment can only help children learn to avoid corporal punishment, instead of sincerely changing their attitudes and correcting their mistakes. It is difficult to form a good educational atmosphere. Corporal punishment of children is often impulsive, and most of them are not well thought out, but it will cause irreparable serious consequences and make children have bad mentality and psychological deviation. If students' feelings are ignored, their body and mind will be seriously hurt.
When there are some inappropriate conflicts with students, we should be good at using educational tact, which can not only avoid conflicts between teachers and students, but also harmonize the relationship between teachers and students, so that students can take the initiative to admit their mistakes and develop their specialties. It can really be a multi-pronged approach. As a teacher, I sometimes lose my temper when some students are naughty. When students don't listen, I try to control my emotions and let him calm down and have a rest. Sounds friendly and harmless. After all, the child was not physically punished and no one was reprimanded. He was stopped and taken away from the scene. It's not hard to see why. As an adult, you can imagine how angry and humiliated you would feel if someone forced you to be isolated because of what you said or did. However, this may be hard to imagine.
To put an end to corporal punishment and corporal punishment in disguised form, teachers must strengthen the study of laws and regulations, improve their awareness, ability and level of teaching according to law, strengthen the construction of professional ethics, improve their professional quality, and be teachers that students like and parents trust.
"A smiling face, a love, a sincere treatment, a satisfactory company". Starting from today, I will treat each of my students well and make their childhood more and more happy! Turn all hatred into love for students, encourage yourself with love, and move forward bravely on the road of education.