Children's rebellious education methods make children understand the significance of this matter. Children will have different problems at different stages. Parents don't have to rush to their children and work together to make their children develop to the next level. Let's share with you the educational methods of children's rebellious period.

Educational methods of children's rebellious period 1 1. How to deal with children's rebellious period

1, keep a cool head.

When children are rebellious, parents are generally dissatisfied and generally use power to suppress their children. In fact, parents at this time should remind themselves to stay calm and wait for their children to calm down before communicating. When a child is rebellious, his words and deeds will be like a storm, and he will not know how to control himself, but his parents are adults and should know when to stay calm.

2. Don't protect children too much.

Encourage children to boldly try what they want to do, cultivate self-reliance and dare to express their opinions, and tell him to think more positively and not always complain. Parents can also give their children more freedom.

Step 3 trust children

Because they have a very strong sense of independence, we should give them corresponding trust. Children often say that my parents don't trust me or understand me. In this case, we should give him some rights and trust, let him do something independently, and accept the side that they are not doing so well. Because they are in a semi-adult and naive state, trust is very important.

4. Hide the purpose of education and don't turn over old accounts.

In the face of children's rebellious behavior, parents should not directly say "no". For example, if a child says he wants to buy high-end clothes, if you say "no, no way", it will only lead to the child's rebellious mentality, and he feels that his parents can't communicate and don't understand themselves. It is to open the door to communication and communicate with children. It is necessary to allow children to make mistakes, educate them not to be emotional, not to turn over old scores, not to insult personal dignity, and to guide them by asking questions instead of asking for dignity.

Second, the reasons for children's rebellious period

1, self-cognitive growth

Naive children have no independent self-awareness and cannot distinguish themselves from the outside world. For him, they are integrated with their mother and the world. By the age of two, children will clearly realize the existence of "I" and start thinking: who am I and what do I want to do? He will learn to distinguish himself from the world and think: which is mine and which is not mine.

2. Explore the power of "me"

After children have self-awareness, they will inevitably be curious about the ability of "I". Therefore, children will explore in various ways what they can do, what impact they will have on the world, and what impact they will have on others. Because destruction is easier than construction, children's ability is not enough. Children usually judge their ability through destruction, not through construction. At the same time, because children's language ability has not yet developed, they don't know how to socialize through language. Therefore, children in this period will have a certain degree of aggression when interacting with others, and will be happy to observe the effect of his attack, so as to judge his position in interpersonal relationships and his influence on others.

3. Contradictory parent-child relationship

In the process of self-awareness, children will inevitably go through a contradictory stage: on the one hand, they are eager to be independent and get rid of their parents' control, on the other hand, they are emotionally dependent on their parents in life. This kind of contradictory situation will cause: children are more attached to their parents than before, afraid of their parents leaving, and at the same time, they will constantly challenge their parents' authority and sing against their parents. This is because the child's "self" has not really been established, wandering back and forth before independence and dependence. In the process of children's future growth, this phenomenon will continue to repeat. Parents' attitude is the key factor in this tug-of-war whether children can achieve real independence in the future.

4. Explore the rules of world operation.

When children begin to distinguish between the world and themselves, they will be curious about what the world is. This curiosity has gone beyond the stage of "knowing the world" in infancy and entered the stage of "why". Children in this period are transformed into "problem children" and ask countless "why" every day, which is the law behind children learning everything.

5, do not know how to distinguish and deal with emotions

As children grow up, the more contact with the outside world, the more "unexpected" situations, and the more diverse children's emotions. But emotion is an abstract concept, and it is difficult for children who are good at thinking in images to understand abstract things. They will be confused, afraid and resistant to these psychological changes, and because of their age, they will only vent through the single channel of crying. In the eyes of adults, children's behavior is like hysterical and unreasonable. At this stage, parents should unconditionally accept their children's emotions, help and guide their children to understand different emotions, and teach them how to deal with them.

Third, the performance of children in the rebellious period.

1, destructive

Littering, unpacking toys, scribbling, tearing books, deliberately throwing toys all over the floor.

2. Stubborn and intense emotional reaction.

Stick to something specific, even if it looks the same; Insist on wearing a certain dress and a pair of shoes, even when it is out of season; Do what you want to do, or you will cry and make trouble; Sitting on the ground in public, playing tricks and hitting people.

3. Go against your parents and ignore them.

Don't do what your parents ask, the more you are forbidden to do, the more you have to do; Ignoring parents, I prefer to play by myself rather than with my parents.

4, challenge the rules and authority, the bottom line.

Deliberately breaking the rules set before; Put forward new requirements in an endless stream; Make a deal with your parents and do nothing until you meet the requirements.

5, conflict with other children, easy to start work

When playing with other children, they will compete for the same toy and order. They don't want to share toys with others, but they like to grab other people's toys, and even hit people in serious cases.

Educational methods for rebellious children 2 1. Do not use threatening sentences.

Rebellious babies like to fight with adults. For example, if you want to take your baby out, you want him to wear more clothes in cold weather, but the baby refuses to wear it anyway. "We won't go out unless you put on your clothes!" If you say this to your baby, he will be angry, cry and even more unwilling to get dressed. Therefore, he will not be able to get away.

"If you don't listen, I won't buy you a toy."

"If you don't eat your food, you can't eat snacks."

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"If you don't ... I won't ..." This kind of logic is difficult for a child to understand clearly, which will make him feel threatened, but it will cause the baby's rebellious attitude towards his mother and will not play a good communication effect.

If you say to your baby, "Baby, get dressed, we're leaving!" " ""We can eat strawberries after dinner. "The baby will quickly answer:" Good! "

2. Say less "no"

Don't keep nagging the child that you don't want to do this, you can't do that, just tell him what you want him to do, "Baby, put your toys in the cupboard and come and read the picture book with your mother."

At this stage, it is difficult for the baby to make a decision. If you ask him a question, he will answer you "yes" and then "no", so don't say "get dressed", or you will easily get a "I don't" answer. Just ask him, "Do you want to wear this blue one or this yellow one?" So he has to make a choice.

3. Pay attention to the baby's mood

Sometimes parents think that the baby is always in a bad temper and annoyed. "Why do you always refuse to listen to me!" In fact, more often than not, parents have a bad temper and can't handle their children's problems well. On the other hand, they feel that their children are so far away from their expectations, others' children are so good, and their own children are so annoying.

Babies are not always unreasonable. When he found that his wishes were always ignored by adults, he had to attract their attention by resisting and crying. If you want your baby to be obedient, solve your baby's emotional problems first. Only when you feel that you are understood will the baby listen to you.

Step 4 divert attention

Babies' attention is easily diverted. When the baby's opinion conflicts with the parents', you don't have to go against the baby. You can easily solve the problem by using this function.

For example, babies like to play with sand, and they also like to catch sand and throw it with their hands, so that the clothes and hair are covered with sand. You are worried that the baby will be hurt by sand and want to pull him away, of course he won't; Tell him not to scratch with his hands, and he won't listen. At this time, if you give him a shovel and a bucket and teach him to shovel sand into the bucket with a shovel, he will definitely start playing with sand with a shovel happily.

Step 5 "ignore" strategy

Sometimes the baby will deliberately be naughty and make big moves to attract the attention of adults. For example, he always throws things on the table and toys everywhere. If parents are emotional and scold him loudly, he will become more and more excited: "That's funny, my mother will have such a big reaction when I do this!" "

At this time, it will be more effective to adopt the strategy of "ignoring" and let the children make trouble by themselves and ignore him. Seeing that adults don't respond, the baby will naturally feel boring. In the future, parents will find opportunities to reason with him and educate him slowly.