In order to handle the teacher-student relationship well, on the one hand, we should establish a good teacher-student relationship with students and integrate into it, on the other hand, we should let students see that, to some extent, teachers are your parents, they are responsible for your growth, and they also manage you for your growth. At the same time, as teachers, we should also realize that although we have the obligation to manage students and the responsibility to educate them, we should also pay attention to the methods we adopt and the strength of the methods we adopt while pursuing the quality of education. Only in this way can we handle the education management of students harmoniously.
Although there are differences between teachers and students, teachers are not above students, and we should be integrated with students. Some teachers think it is necessary to show a very serious attitude in front of students, so that students feel very scared when they see themselves. In fact, although this practice can achieve the purpose of managing students, it will alienate the relationship between teachers and students. Therefore, in the attitude of teachers towards students, I personally think that teachers should be strict with students and love them. Only in this relaxed situation can they become one with their own students and let them listen to their own teaching.
Observing the group of teachers in the school, we will find a very interesting phenomenon, that is, some minor teachers and physical education teachers can often get along with their students. The reason for this result is that these teachers understand that students need happiness in their hearts, and these teachers can bring them a kind of happiness and make them become one. However, this does not mean that students will be presumptuous in these teachers' classes. On the contrary, especially in physical education class, students love their PE teachers very much, but they are also very afraid of their PE teachers. Because when teaching students, PE teachers know that on the one hand, they should have a good relationship with their own students, on the other hand, they should write to let students see their harsh side.
Therefore, for teachers, especially for the friends in charge of the class, we must not let the students see that we are strict, but at the same time completely wrap up our kind side, leaving only a terrible impression on the students, which will actually destroy the relationship between us and the students.
There should be punishment for students' education, but it must be moderate. In my personal opinion, it is essential to punish students' education. Students are a group. There are students of different types and personalities in this group. Not every student can love learning and be very obedient. Therefore, for some naughty students who don't like learning, as teachers, we can take some punishment measures in their management methods, but these punishment measures must be within a reasonable range. It is unreasonable for a teacher to let a six-year-old girl run ten times on the football field like this. Not to mention a six-year-old child, it is difficult for a teacher to run five laps on the football field by himself, so when making some decisions, we as teachers must put ourselves in the shoes.
Regarding the education management of students, we must pay attention to communication. For some students, good communication is enough to change their attitude towards learning. Therefore, if all students are educated in the same way, some students will be disgusted and even hurt.
Furthermore, the punishment for students should focus on correcting their learning attitude, rather than making them feel the pain of flesh and blood. Some teachers will choose to let students copy the text in teaching methods, some will copy it ten times, and some will copy it dozens of times. In fact, I think this practice is meaningless. If students understand the text only by copying it twice, then the next eight times will be useless.
The education of students is not only a problem for teachers, but also for parents. In terms of education, we must recognize the reality that although students are under the control of teachers at school, they are also children of parents, and parents have the responsibility to educate their children. Parents must be good at communicating with their children and tell them what they can and can't do. At the same time, we should actively communicate with teachers.
Some parents always refuse to communicate with their teachers on the grounds that they are busy. In fact, this is understandable. But with the development of modern communication, many teachers and parents will exchange WeChat. In fact, we often only need one or two sentences to learn about our children's school situation.
Finally, for the education and management of children, teachers should adopt appropriate methods reasonably, instead of blindly letting children quit his current practice in extreme ways. The so-called filial son under the stick is a kind of psychological fear. It is a very foolish method to apply it to our teaching, so as to make students fear their own hearts and achieve the desired teaching effect. I also hope that every teacher can properly handle the relationship between himself and his students.