Educate women by watching the details of eating. As the saying goes, it is not wrong to look at the character in detail, because no matter how you pretend, there will always be a moment of relaxation, and you can see a person's upbringing when you eat. So how to educate women from the details of eating?
The details of eating show that educating women 1 The so-called education refers to the moral cultivation embodied in behavior. It is the result of social influence, family education, school education and personal training. For a woman, education can not only reflect her personal level, but also indirectly reflect her family education in the family from which she was born.
Then, in love, how to judge whether a woman's emotional intelligence is high or not, just go out for dinner with her! An educated woman would never have the following behavior!
First, when choosing a hotel, you only care about yourself.
Even if a man wants a woman, he will invite her to dinner. Educated women will also choose restaurants whose distance, taste and price are suitable for two people, while uneducated women will not care about them at all. They will only be happy for themselves and will not ask men for advice when choosing a place.
This is actually a typical disrespect for men, and such women's emotional intelligence is particularly low.
Second, let's eat.
The ancients had clouds; "Don't talk when eating, don't talk when sleeping", although the original meaning is don't talk when eating and sleeping, but now in society, its meaning has been extended to try not to make indecent sounds when eating.
When eating, it will make a very indecent sound, which will seriously affect the mood and appetite of people who eat together. Educated women don't eat. They should chew slowly and don't make any noise.
Third, pull vegetables.
Most uneducated women don't consider other people's feelings. What such a woman shows when eating is that she can pull vegetables and only pick the meat in a dish or her favorite ingredients. I don't care if people who eat at the same table can eat this dish after it is pulled.
In fact, such uneducated women will not estimate other people's feelings in other aspects of life, because they are completely self-centered, and such women with low emotional intelligence are not liked by others!
Fourth, I didn't give the waiter a good look.
The customer is God, which I believe all business people understand. But if a woman really takes herself as a god and doesn't have a good look at the service staff, that's the feeling of being above herself.
Then this woman is really uneducated, and the working threshold of the waitress is low, but it doesn't mean that she can be bullied. After all, she is not the father. When you are born, you must be kind. The woman with high emotional intelligence smiled and said thank you to the waiter.
5. Stay away from the cashier.
Although the social environment is that men and women go out to eat, men usually pay the bill. But educated women will also prepare some small change for emergencies, or buy two hot drinks after dinner to express their gratitude.
But uneducated women take the initiative when ordering food, and stay away from it when checking out. This kind of woman, having dinner with them once will never happen again.
The details of eating can be seen in parenting 2 1 and the attitude of ordering food. When two people eat, the man will give the woman the right to order out of courtesy. It is this detail that shows what kind of person she is. Some women only politely order one or two cheap dishes, and let you order the rest. Some women, like lions, order all kinds of delicious food and kill you severely.
Such a woman not only has never seen the world, but also shows her vanity.
2. See if she will consider your feelings when ordering. If a woman only cares about herself and orders a lot of things she likes, she won't ask your opinion at all, is it enough for two people?
Then such a woman is really selfish and doesn't know anything about saving. It is conceivable that in other ways, she probably won't consider your feelings. You really need to think about it.
3. Buy or not. When most men and women eat together, boys pay the bill. But if a girl doesn't even mean to pay the bill, you may want to think about it. What is the purpose of her having dinner with you?
If a girl really wants to have dinner with "you" instead of "having dinner with you", then she will definitely not let you pay the bill alone. Otherwise, you may just be regarded as a "meal ticket".
Educate a woman by watching the details of eating. See if she is picky about her seat when she eats.
Under normal circumstances, both men and women will habitually choose a window seat when eating, because such a seat is quiet and has a wide field of vision.
But everything in this world can't be what you want. Many times when we go to eat, if we just catch up with the meal, it is difficult to find a seat, let alone a window seat.
In dating couples, if this happens, it can test a woman's character. Under normal circumstances, if there is no window seat, women will not be angry, and they will easily accept other vacancies arranged by the waiter, just eating, without so much pressure, which shows that such women are very approachable and have a good personality, and will not deliberately embarrass the hotel waiter.
But some women are different. If she can't wait for her favorite window seat, she will make things difficult for the waiter and belittle and ridicule the waiter in various ways. Her words showed disrespect and impoliteness to the waiter, and she would only give up if she had to force the waiter to find her a window seat. To tell the truth, such a woman has a bad personality at first glance.
The restaurant is not her home. How can she be so unreasonable? Deliberately embarrassing the hotel staff is also a kind of ill-bred.
2. Look at her attitude towards the waiter
This point is repeated with the first point, but it is not exactly the same. The first point is that she said some disrespectful words to the service staff because she couldn't find her favorite window seat, which just shows that her character is really poor.
Some women are bossing around the service staff because they are customers and go to eat and spend money. They think that the waiter is doing the work of serving people, so he should be obedient and respectful to her.
If a woman serves food a little late, she will swear at the waiter;
Because the waiter accidentally touched her while serving, she remained firm to the waiter after the waiter sincerely apologized to her;
Because the waiter was busy entertaining another table and didn't give her feedback in time after she spoke, he shouted at the restaurant. These behaviors can show that she is a person who doesn't know how to respect others. Such a woman has a bad personality.
Whether a woman's character is good or not depends not on her attitude towards familiar people, but on her attitude towards strangers.
If a woman is so disrespectful to the waiter, it only shows that she has no education at all, so you'd better stay away as soon as possible!
3. When eating, see if she will ask you about your preferences.
Eating can best show that a woman is not selfish after all, because everyone has their own favorite food. If a woman orders only what she likes and doesn't care or ask what you want to eat, it shows that she is selfish at heart.
If a woman asks you about your preferences before ordering, ask if you have any taboos, such as whether you eat spicy food, whether you are sour, whether you like fish, etc. This shows that she is a very careful woman. Of course, on the other hand, it shows that she is a woman with a good personality, because she will take care of your preferences. It can be seen that such a woman is very educated.
In fact, the level of women is the embodiment of education. In life, we still prefer to associate with those high-level women, not because of how noble their lives are, but because their attitude towards life makes people feel comfortable.
High-level women know how to take care of the feelings of people around them, not just their own feelings;
High-level women will make you feel like spring breeze, but they won't make you feel oppressive;
High-level women know how to advance and retreat, know manners and are very educated. Get along with such a woman, and you will gradually become a better person.
From a woman's performance at dinner, she can best reflect her character and level. Because in women with high level and good character, you can see the beautiful side of human nature, and that kind of cultivation can't be put on them.
So before you want to fall in love with a woman, have dinner with her first. Don't underestimate a simple meal, but you can see her true level and personality.