In fact, just because children don't ask questions doesn't mean they don't have doubts. Today, with the development of information such as media and internet, children have more ways to get in touch with sexual knowledge. The sexual knowledge they acquired without a teacher may be one-sided, fragmented and even deformed. Instead of letting them suffer bad influence in the process of finding their own answers, why can't parents bravely shoulder their responsibilities?
Parents' traditional concept of sex not only makes them ashamed to talk about sex, but also prevents them from talking about sex and even lacks correct sexual understanding. Many parents in China grew up in an era of sexual isolation, and they hardly received formal and systematic sex education, and were in a state of poor sexual knowledge and outdated sexual education concepts. However, today's parents can't go on like this. You know, parents are important guides for children's sex education.
Parents' position in sex education is irreplaceable.
Parents play an irreplaceable role in sex education for children, because when children are born, the first contact is parents and family. Moreover, children spend most of their time at home and grow up under the care and education of their parents. Therefore, the family environment, parents' daily words, behaviors and education have a subtle influence on children. Parents are more important educators in sex research, and their role in children's sex education is irreplaceable.
What is the correct sexual concept and knowledge? Parents should tell their children to help them establish a correct outlook on life and values. On the issue of sex, parents should first maintain an equal relationship with their children. If parents can't answer or are ashamed to speak, they should be honest, not posturing or hiding.
Parents and children can talk openly about sex, and they can also discuss what is appropriate behavior, what sexual behavior means, and what its consequences are, so as to give children a clear code of conduct and moral norms.
If children can get satisfactory answers about sexual problems from their parents, they will feel more confident and responsible when dealing with sexual problems. They can discuss things with their parents and avoid things that should not happen.
If parents give their children proper sex education, they can encourage them to protect themselves with scientific knowledge and skills and promote their normal development and growth. Parents' own level of sexual knowledge and morality will directly affect their children's physical and mental health.
Parents have an unshirkable responsibility for their children's sex education. Parents who really care about their children should also take this kind of education as a very important thing, find the right time and prepare for talking to their children for the first time.