First, parents care too much about their children's grades.
The parents in the play are typical representatives of the middle class, white-collar workers, backbones and elites. Father Fiona Fang is an ophthalmologist in a 3A hospital, and mother is responsible for worrying about her children's academic performance. Duoduo's mother is a very strict mother. As long as she has time, she will pick up the children on the bus, personally assign writing tasks and assign papers to the children. Although the gap of 0.5 points is very tight.
Not only that, she also hired an English tutor and often called the teacher to ask about her children's study. She often said that if you can't go to a key high school, a key university or a key university, your life will be over. Father Fiona Fang has the responsibility to be a good man in family education. When the wife scolds the children, the father will mediate with her to ease the contradiction.
Second, parents doubt the love situation of adolescent children.
Sometimes Jennifer Dong will peek at Duoduo's diary, rummage through her cell phone and room, disrespect the privacy of children and misunderstand the puppy love of blossoming. "Adolescent children fall in love because their families don't give them love and trust, their parents don't understand, their children are depressed, and they meet people they can talk to, but this is not love.
If parents should always maintain an attitude of not opposing or supporting this, "too strong opposition will make the contradiction bigger, but will push the children to the opposite side." Adolescent children urgently need respect from others and need their own independent space. In a harmonious parent-child relationship, children will naturally share secrets with you.
Third, plan the future for children.
For the protagonist Qin Qin, her academic performance is very good. Her mother always hoped that she could go abroad, stand out from the crowd and do her best. Dad loves his daughter and doesn't want her to go abroad. My parents quarrel all the time, and the kiss is caught in the middle. We walked into the examination room with confidence.
However, the result always surprises us and scares us. We are afraid of teachers talking to parents, parents scolding us or even scolding us. Under pressure, we struggled forward, lost our feelings and became puppets of our parents.