1, dad goes to play with his mobile phone when he gets home.

The negative influence of dad

Dad does spend a lot of time with his children, but slowly, the mobile phone becomes an obstacle between father and children.

Dad is either working or socializing. Even if they can go home early, in addition to eating, fathers also start to lie in bed or nest on the sofa to play with their mobile phones. Finally, I can take my children out to play on weekends. He may not devote himself to playing with children for a while, make phone calls for a while, and browse the web for a while. Nominally, he takes the children out to play, but in fact, his attention is completely absent from the children.

2. Dad likes to go home late.

Dad's role is crucial.

No matter whether the company really needs to work overtime or go to socialize, many fathers try to go home as late as possible after work, and usually go to play with their buddies for three days.

Some mothers often say that I want to raise two children now, one is my "big child" and the other is my little child.

Now that the baby has been born, dad should take responsibility.

3. Raising children is a woman's business?

Children need a common education.

My husband doesn't know how to cherish women. He thinks that taking care of children is a woman's business. He never helps. He always says that you are at home at ease. Isn't that taking care of children?

Men always find it easy to raise children.

4. Dad who doesn't play with children

Dad doesn't want to be with the children.

The child's growth moment is fleeting, really short. When you are old and want your children to accompany you, you will find that your children have grown up and are busy every day. Just wait and see how your child feels at first.

Both father and mother play an indispensable role in the growth of children. If the mother's company can give children a sense of security, take care of their lives and cultivate their delicacy and kindness, then the father's company gives children more independence, strength and initiative to solve problems, and optimism in the face of setbacks, both father and mother are indispensable.

Dad always quarrels with his family.

Children are influenced by their parents.

In a family with children, quarreling is the biggest taboo. Imagine if you were a child and stood by and witnessed all this, what impact would it have on you? The quarrel between adults makes children helpless, and whatever they want to say will be scolded for meddling, which may even lead to a bigger war. Therefore, the child will endure silently, and over time, it will make him have a negative mentality.