? Let me tell you something about my own experience. Because there are only two bedrooms, the baby and grandma sleep in one room. He likes playing mobile phones and games, and often stays up late into the night. However, no matter whether grandma sleeps alone, the consequence is that the children are late for class during the day, and they can't remember their homework and can't finish it. We tried our best, but we don't know why and we can't change it. She didn't tell the truth until we asked her.

Dabao eats. He sits and calls grandma to take chopsticks and grandma to take vegetables. After grandma ran before and after, the child was not very delicious, so she was anxious to feed him. Have you ever thought with your head that he is over 10 years old? I said angrily, shouldn't you kneel down and hold the bowl above your head with your hands for him to eat? ! This is ugly enough, but the old man hasn't changed.

We don't give Dabao too much pocket money. Grandma secretly gives it from the pocket money we give her every day, and she gives almost everything Dabao wants. The first time a child lost his temper with his grandmother, she felt that she could bear it, and there was a second and third time, so that now the old man ignores him and even dares to push you and him. The weakness of the old man in front of the children for the first time and the second time encouraged him to bully his grandparents again. He knows the bottom line, so he does whatever it takes.

The news often reports that some children beat and scold their parents. Have you ever reflected on your grandparents? Why did your descendants dare to hit you? Why do other people's children understand and respect others? Many people sympathize with the beaten elders and scold the unscrupulous descendants, but have you ever thought that an elder who always makes mistakes will gain the respect of future generations? How can an elder who makes a child lose his temper or even deliberately encourages a child to lose his temper stop the child from getting used to it? You can't give your child a fair, reasonable and peaceful family environment yourself. How can we educate a reasonable and gentle offspring? No matter how busy I am at work, I am willing to take more time to take care of my children alone. I really hope to exclude my grandparents from my children's lives, and I am really afraid of their destructive education.