If you get into the habit of relying on others for everything, it will help you a lot at first, but it will be useless to you after all.
It is necessary to reflect on whether good knowledge is of substantial help to your spiritual growth. If not, then it is necessary to reflect on whether he did not give good guidance or his own problems.
Reflect on the path that good knowledge has given you, and whether you have carried it out properly. If the content of good knowledge is correct, but you can't carry out the methods he teaches, and good knowledge tells you that the study and homework you do can't be carried out, then the problem lies with yourself. Think about the meaning of finding good knowledge. What do you hope to get from good knowledge by taking the initiative to reflect? If you just talk to someone, you want to find a spiritual comfort and form a kind of dependence and even feelings, which is wrong, and you don't respect yourself and good knowledge.
We should learn good knowledge, stand on our own feet, develop our wisdom and exercise our ability to overcome difficulties. If you rely on it blindly, even the best teacher can't help it. Just like Ananda, in his early days, he thought that Buddha was his brother, with a backer and support, and he didn't study hard. As a result, his practice has never been on the road.
Besides, you need to be careful when choosing good knowledge. Here are some suggestions from Master Zhi Min for your reference:
"There are two conditions are indispensable. The first is to observe the precepts. Master doesn't keep the precepts, and he can't learn, practice or stop. Second, be compassionate. If the master's purpose of accepting disciples and preaching Buddhism is for his own personal fame, status and power. Instead of seeing the suffering of all sentient beings and benefiting all sentient beings, then this person can't stop. "
If he is just a friend who is eager to help you learn Buddhism, you should not ask too much of others, but consider whether they are convenient. After all, people are helping you, and there are many things and limited energy.