What are the most taboo points in raising children? Li Meijin, a child-rearing expert, pointed out that only by knowing children can we avoid detours? Nowadays, many parents think that their teaching methods are completely accurate, unaware of their children's incorrect parenting styles, and even change their children's lives. It's really sad. Originally, my initial intention was for the good of my children, but I deeply hurt my children because of my lack of parenting experience. For example, in a wealthy family, parents are persistent and cultivated in order to exercise their son's hard-working spirit. Once, a child was accused of stealing a watch in his class, and the teacher asked him to pay for it tomorrow. The child was too scared to say anything when he came home. He only took 50 yuan in private, and later his parents learned the last lesson, which left a serious shadow on the child.

Li Meijin, a well-known expert professor of parenting education, stressed that three points should be kept in mind when raising children, and that children in cultural education must communicate with them and have a deep understanding, so that they can really get twice the result with half the effort and cultivate excellent children. First of all, you can't capture all your sons. Now that living conditions are better, it is more common for parents to spoil their children, especially the only child or the thinker who prefers sons to daughters. When a boy is seven or eight years old, he can't do many things by himself. He depends on his parents for everything and has grown into a "mother-in-law". When these children grow up, they will often become "precious mothers", unable to integrate well into society and move towards independence. Their parents will regret it too late.

Secondly, there is no need to prohibit boys from crying. Some families want their son to be more masculine and become a little man. Coupled with the support of the words "boys don't cry easily" and "men cry is a sign of cowardice", boys are forbidden to cry. If they cry, they need to be severely scolded. In fact, crying is a normal way for us to release our emotions. If we get too much grievances and resentment in our hearts for a long time, it will not be good for our children's character and personality. When the child is crying, adults can find out that the child has encountered problems as soon as possible, and use their knowledge to know what harm he has suffered outside or what difficulties he has encountered, and deal with them in time to prevent the poisonous buds from taking root in his heart.

Finally, avoid not communicating with children. In today's society, adults are generally very busy, and they are exhausted from their work every day. It is difficult to get a part of their children from time and energy. Even so, it is appropriate for parents to communicate with their children and give more waiting. Children's understanding of the world is imperfect, and sometimes they are confused or injured. If they are not well enlightened and calmed down, they are vulnerable to trauma, which is not good for development. The efforts made will not be in vain, and parents will get serious positive feedback from their children. The more thoughts and time they spend on their children, the better their children will be in the future.