Everything in the world has its own time: sowing, growing, flowering and dying. Raising our children is like growing and blooming. It takes time. We need to calm down and take our time. Don't worry.

This is an era of rapid development and rapid change. This is an era with precious time and the highest efficiency, and it is also an era eager for success. Living in such an era, we easily stumble and run fast. This kind of urging and urging also brought us into the growth process of children. Many parents always blame their children and always feel that their children are growing slowly. In fact, it is also very important to educate children and blame them.

Lv Kun, a famous scholar in the late Ming Dynasty? The concept of "groan" was put forward in? Seven is not responsible? . The original text says:? Be young, be modest, and be careful of those responsible. Don't blame the public, regret the public, don't blame the night, don't blame the diet, celebrate the public, don't blame the sorrow, don't blame the disease. ? The general meaning of this sentence is that children have shortcomings, so be careful when blaming them. They will not blame, feel ashamed and regret in front of everyone, blame them at night, blame them when celebrating, blame them when they are sad, and blame them when they are sick. From the perspective of healthy parenting, seven have no responsibilities? It is still thought-provoking.

If parents and teachers often reprimand, insult or even discriminate, intimidate or punish their children, it may affect their height development to varying degrees. Children are often scolded in public, and they are in a state of high mental tension and depression for a long time, which leads to excessive psychological pressure on children. The decrease of growth hormone secretion in hypothalamus at the bottom of brain directly affects height development and even appears short, which is called by western medicine? Mental deprivation dwarfism? . Therefore, if parents want their children to grow up healthily, they should especially avoid scolding their children in public, not because of their poor height.

So talking about children when they are happy won't have any influence on their health? From the perspective of Chinese medicine, this is also inappropriate. Chinese medicine believes that the heart in the five internal organs corresponds to the joy in the seven emotions. When the child is happy, scolding the child will not only make the child uncomfortable, but also really hurt him? Heart? .