Delay in meeting children's needs
When rewarding children, you can give them a choice to delay satisfaction. For example, if you reward your child with a lollipop, you can let your child choose to get a lollipop immediately, or you can let your child choose to get two lollipops after 20 minutes. To guide children to choose delayed gratification, that is, get two after 20 minutes. Children who can delay meeting their needs have better self-control.
A promise to be kept.
What parents promise must be done. Don't think that it doesn't matter once or twice, it will plant grass in the child's heart. In the long run, children's self-control will drop significantly.
Less criticism, more encouragement
Children get more criticism, their self-confidence will decline, and their self-control will also decline. Therefore, we should encourage children more and improve their self-confidence.
lead by example
The best teachers can set an example. If parents can set an example for children in one thing, children will imitate their parents. For example, if parents insist on quitting smoking, the chances of children smoking in the future will be very small.
Proper training
Some self-control training games can be used to train children's self-control.
Establish rules
Set some rules for children on weekdays, what to do and what not to do. When it must be finished, and so on.
Overall management
A popular way of family education. Manage children with integral management. If you do something, you will get extra points. If you don't finish, you will get less points. You will be counted once a week.
Read more
Children can read some inspirational books, feel the struggle stories of celebrities and learn the self-control of celebrities.