After reading the book "Don't lose in family education", I fully understand the importance and particularity of family education, and learn from it the shortcomings of parents in educating their children. Parents, as their children's first teachers, will play a great role in guiding their children to grow up healthily and form good habits. Although we have made efforts and requirements for children to cultivate good habits such as study and life at home, after reading this book, I still feel that I still have a lot to do. First of all, I think we should respect our children and let them learn to respect others. As parents, children are generally taught to listen to their parents, so that they can be good children and get rewards and praise. But by reading this book, we have changed our minds now. We believe that although the child is underage, he is also an independent and thoughtful person who needs respect and understanding. So now that something has happened to his family, we always ask his advice. Sometimes he can express his views to us, and sometimes we need to give him some guidance. Since then, we feel that his autonomy and self-confidence are gradually increasing.

Secondly, treat children with a calm mind. Sometimes, when we ask him to do something or explain his homework, if he doesn't want or understand, we will be impatient, which will make him cry or unwilling to do what we ask. However, if this happens now, we will calmly explain to him what happened and make him realize the necessity of doing these things, so that our communication with children will increase.

We didn't let him do much before. Even if the child wants to, we don't want him to intervene, for fear of making things worse. Now, as the child grows up day by day, we think that doing things can exercise his hands-on ability and self-care ability. At dinner, we let him set the bowl, and after dinner, we let him clean up the dishes and chopsticks. On holidays, he also offered to wash dishes and brush chopsticks, and we agreed. When he finished washing, we also praised him. From then on, when he offered to help us share the housework, we generally wouldn't refuse him. Through these things, I think it has stimulated children's good habits of doing more exercises and hands-on, and also cultivated children's sense of organization and responsibility after studying in family education.

Through reading this book, I also realize that family and school are two environments for children to grow up. School education is the same for everyone, so how can children be better than others? It is necessary to strengthen family education, because the influence of family environment on people is all-round.

Do you want to be emotional after reading Family Education 2? Study? Grow up? It is not only a compulsory course for students, but also the motivation for parents and teachers. The book "Don't lose in family education" is very operational, which makes us deeply understand? Only parents who don't know how to teach, and no children who don't teach well? Let's read the homework that every parent must do. There is an old saying in China:? Under the stick comes a dutiful son! ? In today's family education, there is still a saying that often appears: why beat a child when he is still young? He doesn't understand! ? There seems to be some contradiction between these two completely different educational methods.

However, in education, sticks? Education has always been a controversial topic; In the past family education model, dutiful sons were born under sticks? It is an indisputable fact, but in modern China, this traditional concept has been subverted. Due to the improvement of economy and culture and the change of environment, modern young parents have gradually changed from a rude education method to another progress, which is the embodiment of civilization. However, in the process of education, different educational methods should be applied according to children's different age levels. Early childhood is a critical period to establish children's correct view of right and wrong and personality, and to reason, reason, reason and reason. Punishment? This is necessary. In childhood, correct guidance is an important means through reasoning, isn't it easy? Punishment? . Adolescence should be based on reasoning and communication, not using it? Force? Educational means, or will children become more rebellious and counterproductive, with the growth of age, sticks? Education should be reduced accordingly.

Another kind? The child is still young, and the educational method of beating him is an educational method of excessive love. Most of it is now? Grandpa, grandma? One generation has only one child in each family, and the affection and affection of the next generation are devoted to one child. The differences in culture and concept lead to the loss of the basic principles of children's education, which is harmful to children's education. So in my opinion, children's education should combine the strengths and characteristics of China and the West? Discipline? And young parents should do their best. Children in parenting education should not be entrusted to the elderly. Learning and growing up with children is a beautiful and important lesson in life.

Environment has changed education, and education has changed everything! Family is the first living place and the most important living base for children's healthy growth. Family education cannot be replaced by any education. School education and social education are extensions, extensions and improvements on the basis of family education. To truly understand a child, we must first understand his family. To ensure that children don't lose at the starting line, we must first ensure that children don't lose in family education.

Now that living conditions are getting better and better, the education of children is more and more worthy of our parents' consideration. As we all know, parents are children's first teachers, and parents play an important role in children's growth. Every parent hopes that their children can develop unilaterally and pin all their hopes on their children. Many times I wonder how to educate my child, whether the effect will be better, and whether it can make her grow better. I read the book "Don't lose in family education" during the holiday and felt a lot. This book uses many examples that are close to our lives, telling examples of how parents should educate their children from all aspects, which is of great help to me and has great guiding role for my future education of children. This book touched me most, and it was well written. Thousands of teachers in Qian Qian teach people to seek truth, and thousands of students in Qian Qian learn to be human. Guiding children to be a man is more important than taking a diploma from a famous university. One stroke, two complicated strokes, make one? People? Words. Teaching children to be human is to let them have the fundamental moral quality of standing in the world. This is the character guarantee of children's life-long growth and development, and learning to be a man is the foundation of children's growth. Only by respecting and caring for each other can children become a kind and caring person over time. As the old saying goes, only parents who don't know how to teach and children who don't teach well are eternal. Only by constantly learning and mastering the knowledge and methods of parent education can parents play their role and let their children grow up healthily!

We firmly believe that with the joint efforts and careful cultivation of family education and study education, our children will grow sturdily and become useful talents for society and the country in the future!

Nowadays, the factors that affect children's behavior are becoming more and more complicated. However, in the process of children's moral constitution, the role of family education can not be underestimated, and parents' moral behavior standards determine and influence children's behavior principles to a considerable extent. Respecting the elderly is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. We have instilled this idea in our children since they were very young. For example, please invite your grandparents before eating and eat together when everyone arrives. In the past, children liked to put their favorite dishes in front of me, which was of course very bad. Once I bought a lot of things I love to eat, put them in front of me and ate them with relish. My son was very wronged when he saw it. I said I learned it from you. Of course, I buy what I like. If you don't think of others, how can others think of you? Ask him: Do you think good things should be shared? He listened and bowed his head. From then on, he knew that only by being kind to others can he win others' goodwill towards himself, and he learned to care for others with compassion. My parents are old and often have some shortcomings. When the old man is sick, we take care of him carefully, leaving the child aside and letting him do the little things he can. Children gradually learn to take care of others. Last year, the child's grandfather was ill, and the child would take the initiative to be his grandfather's nurse every Saturday. He imitated my previous movements, washed my grandfather's feet and beat his back, and read newspapers and told stories to the elderly.

? Are you worse than others? When asked about my child, my child will definitely answer without hesitation:? I am no worse than others, others can do it, so can I! ? I remember when he was in kindergarten, we took him to Long Island for the first time. Shortly after leaving, the child couldn't walk, sat on the ground, shamelessly refused to leave, kept crying and insisted that we take him away. Faced with this situation, our husband and wife could not negotiate with her, so we ignored it and went straight up. I also deliberately told his father that you can't walk fast either. When your son has a rest, he will walk faster than you. ? The child thought we would come and take him away, but nobody paid attention to him and his hopes were dashed. He knew it was up to him. Plus, after listening to our conversation, he got up and caught up with us and asked for a game. Since then, the child is no longer willful and has developed a self-reliant character. It is this character that makes him study hard and study hard.

After reading the book "Don't lose in family education" during the holiday, I know that what we have done is far from enough. If you want to be a qualified parent, you must constantly improve your own quality, update your family education concept, and master superstitious family education knowledge and methods. We deeply understand that parents should assist their children, let them learn how to behave and let them continue to behave badly. The cultivation of personality and conduct is an extremely long process. The persistent pursuit of truth, goodness and beauty, ardent enthusiasm and frank feelings will always be the strength of our parents' personality. We require our children to be honest, sincere, natural, upright, honest, frank and cruel. I must do it first. Like the German educator Froude? Bell said: the fate of children is in the hands of parents.

Let's join hands as parents, do everything for children, hold up tomorrow's sun, create a happy life for children and create a bright future for the Chinese nation.