Based on the experience of parental education, parents should unite with their children to overcome difficulties together. Whether a child's ability is outstanding or not determines the future development height. All parents should attach importance to the education of their children. Let's share with you the summary of parents' experience in educating their children.

Summary of parents' experience in educating their children 1 1. The main factor affecting children's grades is not school, but family.

2. If there is something wrong with family education, children may have a hard time at school, and children are likely to become "problem children" at school.

3. For children with good grades, the mother is usually a planned and agile person. The more serious, organized and polite a father is, the better his children's grades will be.

Poverty is an important educational resource, but the poorer it is, the better it is for children's growth. Parents need to provide their children with basic cultural materials to prevent them from falling into the abyss of inferiority.

5. Richness is another resource of higher education. The experience of westerners is: "It takes three generations to train a noble." "Class is hereditary." However, more advanced educational resources need more advanced educational skills. Without advanced educational skills, wealthy families will bring disaster to children's growth.

6. Don't be a knowledgeable and uneducated parent. Some people have received higher education, but they are not necessarily literate. If parents don't know how to live, treat others well, or even treat their children well, then no matter how high their academic level is, they are uneducated.

7. Parents can regard their children as the center of the world, but don't forget that parents should also live an independent life. If parents are completely child-centered and have no theme of their own lives, such parents often interfere with their children's growth in the name of love. Sometimes, it's not that children can't live without their parents, but that parents can't live without their children.

8. Parents need to take the responsibility of educating their children, but don't completely cancel their leisure life because of educating their children. "No sense of responsibility hurts others, too much sense of responsibility hurts yourself." (Wu Jiaxiang)

9. If parents quickly pick up their children when they cry, then children will take advantage of this feature of their parents and constantly pester their parents to make more demands. Therefore, the child cried, don't rush to pick it up, parents had better let themselves have something to do, and let the children watch themselves and do things quickly.

10, the relationship between husband and wife affects the child's personality. If a man doesn't respect his wife, then his son learns to disrespect his female classmates at school. If a woman doesn't respect her husband, then her daughter learns to look down on her male classmates at school.

Education is to cultivate people's mental outlook. The mission of parents and teachers is to make children gradually take responsibility for their mental outlook, get rid of all kinds of filth that may be polluted, cultivate spiritual "seeds" on people, and make people breathe alpine air and hold their heads high.

12, educated parents are Voltaire, "I don't agree with your point of view, but I will defend your right to speak to the death". They began to reason with their children from the day they were born and patiently asked for their opinions. Don't expect children to learn to obey by beating and cursing. As a result of killing chickens for monkeys, monkeys also learned to kill chickens.

13, let children become passionate and rational people. "Without passion, no great cause will have a good start; Without reason, no feat will have a good ending. "

14. Let your children become educated people. Education begins with punctuality, queuing, not talking loudly in public and not getting angry easily.

15, kind. If your child is kind, please don't laugh at his weakness. People who like to take advantage of small things often suffer big losses because they are rejected by others. He who is willing to suffer a small loss will take a big advantage in the future, because he is liked by people.

16, physical vitality can bring spiritual vitality. A healthy person has a sunny personality. People in poor health are hesitant, evasive and hesitant.

17, don't think that children 1 to 6 years old are just the age of growing up. If parents let their children spend time with grandparents 1 until they are 6 years old, and parents take their children back to primary school when they are 6 years old, then the children will either become silent dumb or lawless troublemakers in primary school.

18, I often do three things with my children: one is to have dinner with them, the other is to invite them to repair toys, furniture or clothes, and occasionally invite them to help solve difficulties in work. The third is to tell stories to children and invite them to tell stories themselves.

19, if there is no special difficulty, parents had better go home to have dinner with their children every day. The common values of the family are established in the process of eating around a table.

20. Tell children stories and invite them to tell their own stories, so that children can establish reading and writing habits from listening to stories, learn to read independently as soon as possible, and develop the habit of lifelong reading as soon as possible. "As long as people are still learning, they will not completely degenerate, and completely degenerate people will not learn. Parents who never tell stories to their children are irresponsible parents.

2 1, children's growth has three critical periods: the first is about 3 years old, the second is about 9 years old, and the third is about 13 years old. Missed the critical period of growth, and the future troubles are endless.

22. Not "standing at thirty", but "standing at three". At the age of three, children must establish the courage and habit of self-reliance. You must do what you can and do what you should.

23. If your child likes Frost's poem when he is 13 years old, it is normal that "two roads branch in the forest, and I choose the one with few people". Don't worry, he may choose the one with more people in the future.

25. It is necessary for parents to reason with their children, but it is more important to pay attention to their speech posture when reasoning with children around 13 years old. Otherwise, the child will be disgusted and will resist. Children will say: everything you say is right, but the way you speak is annoying.

26. The secret of the bottom of my heart is a sign of people's growth and maturity. If a child has something on his mind and doesn't want to tell you, then don't force him to tell his secret.

27. It is best to have a laissez-faire parent around the age of 3. Around the age of 9, it is best to have an active and authoritative parent around you. Before and after the child 13 years old, it is best to have a negative and democratic parent around him. Effective education is first strict and then loose, while ineffective education is first loose and then strict.

28. You must pay attention to your child's academic performance, but don't care too much about his ranking. Be wary of those children whose academic performance is always the first. Some children have good academic performance and good personality, while others have good academic performance, but they are selfish, unsympathetic and uninterested in life.

29. Your child must learn to associate with others and accept friends happily. "If parents are dissatisfied with their neighbors, are very picky about their children's friends, or don't let their children make friends with them and make them feel as if they are very different from others, then it will be difficult for these children to get along naturally with anyone when they grow up.

30. Children need companions to grow up, so that children can have their own friends, but not too messy partners. Before children form mature rationality and judgment, they should be alert to the bad habits of their peers.

3 1, let your children establish a healthy aesthetic as soon as possible. Promising men will definitely like healthy women. Don't let your child's aesthetics fall into a low-level morbid state. Don't think that a minor illness is good. Don't think that the strong are all bad. Don't think sparrows, sheep and puppies are cute, and don't think lions, tigers and wolves are bad. Don't think that jackals eat people, and jackals only eat the weaker ones.

32. The Catcher in the Rye contributed a word to the world: observation. Education is neither management nor neglect. Between management and no matter, there is a word called "look".

33. Tell children that children who listen carefully will occasionally get good grades, and children who study hard will always get good grades.

Summary of parents' experience in educating children 2 How to cultivate children's interest in learning?

First, from the classroom environment, cultivate children's interest in learning.

Geek Math Club adopts teaching systems such as "Geek Coin" and "Timer" to stimulate students' interest in learning in many ways and explore the potential factors that affect students' interest. Create teaching situations in classroom teaching, design questions with appropriate difficulty according to the differences of students' actual level, seize the opportunity to inspire and enlighten in time, and at the same time, geek mathematics helps to adopt small class teaching, so that every student can get enough attention. The system of "on-site inspection" can firmly grasp students' attention before class and make them quickly enter the "best learning state", which is the first step of a good class.

Teachers are organizers, guides and helpers of teaching activities. The teacher's role is to arouse students' active thinking and initiative. Geek math teachers will create conditions according to children's age characteristics and cognitive laws, and guide children to actively learn and explore the mysteries of mathematics. At the same time, the methods are constantly updated and changed, which stimulates the desire of exploration and knowledge. Geek math helps teachers prepare lessons collectively, learn from each other's classroom art and grow together. Geek teachers firmly believe that only by constantly improving the characteristics and creativity of the classroom can children be recognized.

Geek math helps the teaching space clean and bright, and math elements can be seen everywhere. At the same time, use multimedia teaching to create a relaxed environment and stimulate interest. Multimedia teaching has the unique effects of colorful pictures, beautiful melody, vivid expression and intuitive visualization, which can best mobilize children's multiple senses, stimulate their strong interest in learning, and make children enter the learning state unconsciously.

Second, while enjoying success and happiness, cultivate children's interest in learning.

Geek math helps teachers find the bright spot of children's learning, let children taste the joy of success, praise what they have done well, and then gently put forward higher requirements for him, arouse the enthusiasm of children's learning, and make every child willing to make progress and success in learning. Geek math helps teachers believe that it is better to give children a praise after ten lectures and a success after ten praises.

Third, in the process of asking questions, cultivate children's interest in learning

Thinking and asking questions are often linked. Asking questions is the result of thinking with the brain and the starting point of children's creation. Einstein said, "It is more important to ask a question than to solve it." In teaching, geek teachers often set up some questioning sessions to let children find problems, ask questions and solve problems in many ways. Guide children to feel the pleasure of finding, asking and solving problems, raise their own doubts, discuss together and get satisfactory answers.

Fourth, design a variety of homework to cultivate children's interest in learning.

Geek math helps teachers design various forms of extracurricular homework, let children play in homework, learn and consolidate what they have learned in homework, and cultivate children's other abilities, such as giving lectures to their parents or classmates, which not only consolidates what they have learned that day, but also exercises their expressive ability.

In short, interest is the driving force to promote children's learning and the main factor to mobilize children's emotions. Therefore, when we skillfully use various teaching methods and auxiliary skills, we can play a positive role in cultivating children's interest in learning in every classroom. When children are interested in learning, they will have a strong thirst for knowledge and get twice the result with half the effort.

Summary of parents' experience in educating their children 3 Parents always have many reasons. They like to think about everything from their own standpoint, but completely ignore the significance of choice for personal growth.

1, regardless of age, everyone should have the right to choose.

There is no denying that every parent wants his children to grow up happily and healthily, and can't wait to make all the decisions for them. But are the choices that seem to be the best decisions according to our experience really correct? No, more often, they broke their wings.

As we all know, Yi Zhongtian is a famous writer, scholar and university professor in China. In the eyes of many people, with his life experience, it is simply too easy to give directions to children. But whenever his daughter asked for his advice, he didn't simply tell her what to do, but let her make her own choice.

In fact, in constant choices and trade-offs, children can better understand themselves and know what they want; Only when children have a choice can they have the motivation and hope to move forward.

What parents need to teach their children most is that there are countless possibilities and choices in life, and it doesn't matter if they make mistakes or fail-introspection, regroup and take a new road, and there will always be a loyal wife.

2. Start making choices as soon as possible.

Children are not robots, and their choice ability is not like a program that can install applications with one click. Parents must realize that this is a time-consuming and laborious project that needs to be done step by step.

Because the younger the child, the better the training effect of choice ability. You can't imagine a child who has been dominated by his parents since childhood. When he is an adult, he can make his own decisions immediately, and he will be at a loss.

3. Encourage children to make their own choices.

A boy wrote in the imaginary composition of My Dream: I have two dreams, one is to be a teacher and the other is to be a singer. He gave this imaginary composition to his father, expecting his praise. But the father frowned after reading it, stroked the boy's head and said, "Son, if you want to succeed, you must choose between being a teacher and being a singer." It's like sitting in two chairs at the same time, and you are likely to fall from the middle of the chair. If you want to sit comfortably and safely, you can only sit in a chair. "

Later, the boy chose to sing. From primary school, middle school and even university, he pursued this dream persistently and eventually became a music superstar. He is the famous Italian singer Pavarotti.

If you think it is difficult for children to make a choice, reality will tell you the answer: the real problem is not which way you choose for your children, but that children should know that different choices will lead to completely different lives. May we all see the essence of life clearly and let our children choose their own life.

4. Start with the little things in life

Many parents think that they only need to give their children a choice in "life events", but to cultivate their choice ability, they should start from the dribs and drabs of daily life. From eating and dressing to reading and making friends, children should be given a choice. If you are afraid of children's random selection and blind selection, parents should screen and check in advance and provide several safety options. If children can learn well, they can also exercise their self-care ability and choice ability.

When children have limited experience and can't make a choice, parents should give necessary analysis and guidance: where are the advantages and disadvantages of several options, what the possible outcome will be after the choice, and how to think and choose. After clarifying the purpose, means and constraints, teach children to find the optimal solution. This way of thinking can make children take fewer detours.

5. Let the children bear the consequences of their choices.

Children have the right to choose, and naturally they have the obligation to bear the consequences, no matter whether the results are good or bad, because this is the starting point for them to take responsibility for their own lives. Children must stick to their own choices, and they will be punished if they are destroyed. Hit the wall a few times when you are young, and you will make fewer mistakes when you grow up.

Don't deprive the child of the right to choose in the name of love, give him more choices, let him make his own decisions, let him bear the consequences of his own choices, and let him grow up in choices.