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Is it better to educate children critically or praise them?
Recognizing praise and encouragement can turn an idiot into a genius, while denying criticism and satire can turn a genius into an idiot. There is no doubt that praise education is the right way of education.

Think about ourselves, do we want others to appreciate and affirm us, or do we preach and deny us all day? The answer is definitely the former. Even adults don't like criticism, let alone enthusiastic children.

What are the benefits of praising education?

1, parent-child relationship is harmonious.

When parents are used to talking with their children in praise and encouragement, their children's mood is pleasant. Whether studying or living, keeping a happy mood is conducive to their growth and development.

2. Enhance children's self-confidence.

Children's psychology is very fragile, and they need the careful care of their parents. Rough criticism can easily hurt children's hearts, thus undermining their confidence. Encourage children, even if they are temporarily behind in their studies or work. For example, when my child learns to jump rope, she always misses the point. After studying for a few days, she still can't. Every day I encourage her: "Today is better than yesterday, you can jump over. I'm sure you will jump two books next time. " Her little depressed face suddenly turned sunny and nodded and said I will. Later, she was very interested in skipping rope. The more she jumped, the more she said to her classmates, "I am an expert in skipping rope."

3. A healthy and positive attitude

Children who grow up with the encouragement of their parents will establish positive and good relationships with their parents and trust each other more. When children grow up in self-confidence, they will also realize their parents' respect for themselves and learn to respect others through subtle influence. Slowly, children will treat others with a more tolerant attitude and become a sunny and warm person.

Love children and praise them when they do something right; When you don't do well enough, encourage!