Cultivating children's integrity requires parents' long-term patience, keeping pace with the times and careful care. It is deeply rooted in the trivial details of daily life and runs through the whole process of family life and parent-child growth.
2. Set an honest example for children.
If parents want to cultivate a responsible and sincere child, they should set an example and be honest. As the saying goes, "example is more important than words". Parents' actions are silent language for children and are real examples.
3. Create a family atmosphere of sincere trust.
Parents should do their duty, create a pleasant atmosphere of honesty for their children and infect their hearts. Especially family members should trust each other. Although children are young, they will feel the respect and trust of their parents. You should know that children who have been respected and trusted since childhood will know how to respect and trust others and how to gain their trust.
4. Meet the reasonable needs of children.
Every parent wants his children to be honest and trustworthy, and doesn't like children who lie. However, many children are not doing well. The reasons are mostly caused by some acquired needs, such as to meet the needs of eating, drinking and having fun, or even to escape criticism and punishment. These are the reasons that urge children to lie.
The Importance of Family Education in Cultivating Children's Honesty
1, change ideas and understand the importance of honesty education.
As parents, the traditional honesty education should change with the changes of the times, the educational content should be rich and novel, meet the needs of the times, and attach importance to the cultivation of children's honesty quality. In the process of family education, children's subjectivity should be reflected and the development direction of children's outlook on life and values should be guided. Excessive doting and encouragement by parents will have a bad influence on children's honesty. This shows that parents have different understanding and ideas about family education, and often have different results in the final training. Therefore, parents should change their original concept of family education and re-recognize the importance of honesty education.
2, the role model effect, showing the intuition of honesty education.
If parents are honest, upright, trustworthy, decent and caring people, then your children will also have these qualities, which shows that parents have a subtle effect on their children by setting an example. Don't think that children will learn to be honest and trustworthy by instilling some honest truth in front of them; Don't think that by saying one thing and doing another in front of children, children will show honest behavior without being seen through by him. Children's world is real, and they tend to create imitations for themselves with actual phenomena. Therefore, our parents should always behave themselves, start with small things in daily life, and set a positive example of honesty and trustworthiness for their children. Only in this way can honesty education for children be effective.
3, equal communication, looking for the opportunity of honesty education.
Numerous family examples have proved that arbitrary parents will only subdue their children with orders, threats, intimidation, irony and even violence, which will easily damage their children's self-esteem, make them rebellious, and lead to inconsistency between words and deeds. Democratic, harmonious and equal family atmosphere and pleasant surrounding environment are extremely important objective conditions for effectively educating children's integrity. Parents can respect and understand their children, provide them with an emotional and emotional security foundation, and let them explore the unfamiliar environment with confidence. Parents should communicate with their children more, grasp their psychological state at this moment in time, gain insight into the deep-seated reasons behind their dishonesty, find the right time for education and rectification, and nip this bad behavior tendency in the bud as soon as possible.
4. Teach students in accordance with their aptitude and pay attention to the practicality of honesty education.
Honesty is a process of cultivation and practice. In the practice of honesty, it is also the basis of personality perfection to let children learn to care for others and get care and respect. How to cultivate children's integrity in family education, we should pay attention to children's versatility, grasp the main problems, seek breakthroughs, teach students in accordance with their aptitude, have a clear aim, strengthen practical activities to enhance children's thoughts and values, and cultivate and learn to care about others, families, elders, the country and society in the process of practice.
5. Create an environment to ensure the durability of honesty education.
Compared with school education and social education, family education has its unique advantages. Because it is relatively easy for families to establish a small atmosphere of honesty. Family education should pay attention to the unity of science and technology education and humanistic education, and the unity of personality cultivation and sense of responsibility cultivation, and strive to cultivate children into people with good physical and mental quality, noble moral sentiments and perfect personality. Creating a family atmosphere in which everyone stresses honesty plays a great role in the cultivation of children's honesty quality, so that children can know right and wrong through practice and understand the value of honesty and virtue. More importantly, it has an important guarantee for the sustainability of children's honesty education.