George Naylor, a contemporary American educational philosopher, has an intriguing remark at the end of Introduction to Philosophy of Education: "Philosophy liberates teachers' imagination, but also guides her rationality ... Those educators who don't think with philosophy must be superficial." Therefore, every teacher should not only regard children as "little philosophers", cherish their smart eyes and philosophical minds, but also think and treat children dialectically and respect them.
Today's children have a strong sense of self and independence. They are particularly eager to be understood and respected by others, especially teachers. Some children, originally only children, have a strong sense of superiority; Some children are often eccentric, precocious and indifferent because of family changes, and are unwilling to participate in group activities; However, their self-esteem is very strong, and improper education will stimulate their rebellious psychology.
There is a child in our class, the only child in the family. His father, mother, grandfather and grandmother all held him in their hands and felt pain, which caused him to lose his temper as soon as something happened. Every time a child bullies him or the teacher criticizes him, his stubbornness comes up. The symptoms of stubbornness are the same, and his small mouth looks pitiful with tears. It's hard to say how strong a child's self-esteem is. In response to this situation, we communicate with parents, and parents also report that this is also the case at home. For this reason, our three teachers have thought of many ways to make the child get rid of such bad temper.
On weekdays, we will pay more attention to his performance and find his bright spots. If you find that he has made any small mistakes, you can't think that the child has no dignity. You can trample on your child's self-esteem at will, but take care of your child's face and self-esteem. You can tell him quietly and make him promise not to make mistakes next time. Day by day, month by month, the stubbornness of the little guy has subsided a lot, and parents have also reported that their children are much better at home. Thank you very much for your education.
Respect is very important for children. "Kindergarten Education Outline" puts forward: "Preschool education should respect children's personality and strength, respect children's physical and mental development laws and learning characteristics, take games as the basic activities, pay equal attention to education, pay attention to individual differences, and promote each child's personality development." I think I will work towards such a goal.