Be reasonable. Criticizing and encouraging these two educational methods means that the latter is more conducive to children's physical and mental development. Therefore, after the child has done something wrong, our first reaction should not be to punish him, but to ask him why he did it. This is also the most easily overlooked step by many parents, who always use adult thinking to explain their children's behavior.
Pay active attention. In addition to the above two points, parents here should correctly treat their children's dependence. Nowadays, many families are only children, and parents want to control everything about their children, so their behavior feedback to their children is: I am the center, you must pay attention to me. Naturally, it is normal to walk around the school without discipline. So, how can we improve this self-centered thinking? Here are two examples. If you need to promote children's independence, it is good exercise to let them try to buy things. We can go with him first and then quit gradually. This companionship process can also observe the attitude and expression of children when they buy things. If the child is really in trouble, you can give some guidance. For example, if you want to enhance your child's sense of security, you can take him to a crowded park or amusement park. In the process of playing games, you will definitely encounter separation. At this time, you need to encourage him to try new things himself. When the number of times is more and the pattern is opened, you won't say that you must be within one meter with your mother. This is also conducive to building a sense of security for him.
It's that parents don't set an example. We should set an example. Children are parents' mirrors. Parents usually disrespect their elders, interrupt or talk back. This is also one of the reasons why children interrupt or talk back. In order to let children form such habits, parents should reflect on whether they have such bad habits in front of their children. In addition, the exemplary role of parents is also reflected in the exemplary role. For example, watching TV with children at night, parents will say to their children, "It's too late, go to sleep quickly." But children may ask, "Why can't mom and dad see?" At this time, many parents will not tell their children the disadvantages of staying up late and why they should go to bed early. Instead, it is perfunctory to say, "Adults can't see staying up late." This situation is common, but it is unfair to children. The best way is to set an example, turn off the TV and sleep with the children.