Japan: Most people think that Japanese people are abnormal (at least I have read many posts that say so), because this immoral phenomenon often occurs in Japan. Except that day.
In addition to cultural traditions and social ills, I think it has a lot to do with the growing environment of Japanese teenagers. China Qing
The sex education that teenagers receive is almost blank. Personally, at that time, China was still very closed, and I didn't know it until high school.
What is the body of Taoist women, and their understanding of sexual behavior is also very vague. Sex education for Japanese teenagers has been carried out ten times.
Generally speaking, in schools, parents and the media, all kinds of sexual information are pouring into teenagers' brains. one day
This pupil understands the truth that "my mother's eggs and my father's sperm combine in my mother's stomach and finally form me".
Not to mention college students and middle school students. At that time, I thought teenagers knew more than when we were young, but a few years later, I just
We can see the mistakes in Japanese nature education. Sex education in Japan pays too much attention to the knowledge of organs and sexual behavior itself, but not to sex.
The cultivation of ethical and moral quality is obviously insufficient, and there are too many explanations for teenagers, which is beyond understanding at this age.
Sexual knowledge, for example, in a middle school sex education textbook in Japan, there is sexual intercourse between a male body and a female body.
Illustration in which the sex organs are clearly depicted. In my opinion, teenagers' physical development is mature, but their ethical awareness is not yet.
When you are often indifferent, accepting a lot of specific sexual information does more harm than good. Generally speaking, it is the danger of "understanding", not the danger of "confusion"
Sex is bigger. Therefore, sex education in Japan has not changed the fact that unmarried sex and harassment of female teachers often occur in schools at all levels in Japan.
Teachers, rape of female classmates, juvenile prostitution, incest of close relatives and other incidents.
In China's traditional cultural thought, sex is secret, an accessory of human social life, and it is to carry on the family line.
Activities with strong restrictions should not be fun. Therefore, China people usually have to avoid sex in their lives and are ashamed to talk about it.
Sex, even considered unclean and obscene, lewdness is the worst quality of China people in ancient and modern times. In Japan, sex worship is its
The main feature of culture, the Japanese believe that sex is a sacred and happy transcendental human nature to survive, regardless of the Japanese.
Men, women and children are never shy about talking about sex. Sex is ubiquitous in Japanese life, and even the patterns on women's kimonos contain sex.
Justice. Therefore, Japanese teenagers have been influenced by this cultural thought since childhood. They have known about sex for a long time, but they are right.
However, we don't know much about the sexual limitations of modern civilization, and even have resistance. When teenagers think that sex is the supreme thing that transcends everything,
When I was young, I would do something against ethics, which is a root of incest among Japanese teenagers.
Some teenagers are not ashamed of their ideology after incest. In China, due to China's cultural thought,
Sex is in a secret underground state in the family, and children can't feel the existence of family neutrality. China's parents not only don't
I will talk about sex with my children, and parents mainly rely on tacit understanding to complete their sexual life and will not discuss it with each other. Parents among children.
There will be no kissing, hugging, flirting and other sexual behaviors in front of children, and children will not know or hear about seeing their husbands.
Sexual behavior between wives. China's parents are very restrained about their sexual life, and the frequency of sharing the same room is not high, so their sexual life stops.
It stopped long ago. Some surveys show that many couples stop having sex in their forties. Chinese mothers pay great attention to it
Maintain the status of elders in front of children, not naked in front of children, and not having too close physical contact with boys.
In the eyes of children, the mother is an amiable and respectable woman with no sexual characteristics. The attitude of parents and family environment towards sex in China is of course guaranteed.
Keep the negative side, but it has the necessary "insurance effect" on children's sexual ethics cognition. In Japanese families, sex is open.
Themes and activities. Japanese parents not only often exchange sexual experiences between husband and wife, but even have different experiences with their children.
It is normal for Japanese families to sit at the dinner table and discuss topics related to sex. sun
The father will hug, kiss and even touch the mother's chest and buttocks in front of the children. Children don't make a fuss.
. Japanese couples have a high frequency of sexual life. They don't stop having sex just because they have children at home. The Japanese didn't.
It's just that the average life expectancy is longer, and the couple's sexual life lasts longer. Many Japanese couples will have sex after the age of 60.
Japanese teenagers generally know what their parents do at night, and they understand their parents' behavior very well, unlike children in China.
I think my parents are doing something "old and not serious".
Nudity is a kind of nature in Japan, and I don't think it will have a bad influence. That's how Japanese education works, son.
As long as the weather permits, boys and girls in the park are playing outside naked. Japanese mothers wear them in front of guests.
Because of etiquette, the dress is very formal, but you can be topless in front of your family and children. Japanese mothers can have sex with underage boys.
It is also considered reasonable to bathe in front of underage children, sleep together and expose your body and even your sexual organs. total
In short, the sexual characteristics of Japanese mothers are very prominent in the eyes of children. Japanese families have a strong sexual color, and children are like this.
Growing up in the environment can't be unaffected. The good effect is that children will face sexual problems in marriage when they grow up. After marriage,
The quality of sexual life is relatively high; The bad influence is that there are so many perceptual knowledge about sex and no self-control ability.
Some "stupid things", especially Japanese teenagers who are too close to their mothers in daily life, are likely to.
When the sexual impulse comes, I will unconsciously regard my mother as the object of sexual fantasy. The lighter one has a certain degree of Oedipus psychology, and the heavier one.
People will have incest between mother and son. In China, housewives' feminine products and sexual products are hidden from their children.
Touched, such as condoms, birth control pills, menstrual belts, bras, etc. I didn't see the real condom until I got married.
When I was a child, I saw my mother secretly hang the washed menstrual belt in a deserted place, and I didn't know what it was for.
. In Japan, these things are all for children. When mom is too busy, she even asks boys to help her go to the store to buy them.
Sanitary napkins, in Japanese shops, boys are sometimes seen in front of the women's counter to help their mothers consult the texture and style of underwear.
. Japanese couples have a traditional habit of recording the scene of their wedding night as a souvenir and taking selfies in the early days.
Camera. Now they all use cameras. Parents will take out this kind of "photo-taking" video at major celebrations or wedding anniversaries.
Play it, and children will have a chance to see their parents' "true colors". I really can't imagine children watching their parents have sex naked.
What do you think of this painting? Some people of insight in Japan pointed out that sex in Japanese children's minds is not mysterious, but it is too mysterious.
Casually, mother became the embodiment of sex in children's minds, and one child called her a "sexy woman" in her middle school composition.
"God" is not conducive to the normal development of mother-child relationship. In his article, Mr. Mito profoundly revealed the disadvantages of Japanese family environment.
Many homes are separated by wooden boards, which are not sound-proof and sometimes light-transmitting. Teenagers eavesdrop on their parents at night.
As a bedtime game, sexual behavior will have a bad idea for the mother when it reaches its limit: "The whole family takes a bath together."
Taking a bath in the pool and helping each other is considered as a sign of family harmony, which I think is actually a bad habit. There was once a teenager who grew up.
I took a bath with my mother and wiped her body parts except the shameful part. Finally, the mother and son had sex in the bathroom.
For a young patient in the clinic, she also bathed with her mother since she was a child. Mother and son often like to tease each other.
As a joke, sex organs had no sexual meaning at first. When he 16 years old, his heart changed, and finally he was born.
Gave birth to "indecent behavior." Most parents in China don't teach their children about sex in person, and mothers may be interested in young women.
Children talk about women's health knowledge, but don't tell boys about the problems encountered in the process of physical development. Chinese mothers are common.
I didn't even know that boys had nocturnal emission, and neither did my mother. China's parents' practice does not meet the requirements of adolescent education.
It needs improvement, but Japanese parents have gone to the other extreme. Japanese adolescent boys are also like China men.
Children often pay attention to talking about women, having sexual dreams and masturbating. But they don't have to hide it from their parents. Japanese mothers are deeply affected.
Influenced by Japanese culture, their understanding of sex is the same as that of Japanese men, and they will calmly face the sexual problems of boys at home.
Japanese fathers seldom take care of family affairs after returning home because of the heavy workload of supporting their families, and the responsibility of educating their children is basic.
Everything falls on the mother, and the sex education for children is often borne by the mother. Japanese mothers will be generous to boys.
Explain all kinds of sexual knowledge, including women's body structure, women's menstruation, men's nocturnal emission, sexual behavior and sexual morality,
Methods to avoid pregnancy, etc. In my opinion, one-on-one sex education is really necessary, but it should be undertaken by same-sex elders, such as
Father to son, mother to daughter. In his article, Mr. Mito said that explaining knowledge to her son by a mother often confuses her son.
Some extra associations sometimes affect the pure mother-child relationship. He wrote in the article, "Some women are mothers.
It seems inappropriate for middle school students to explain the sexual behavior of men and women in detail ... a woman who has been to the clinic
She gave her son, who is only 14 years old, too much information about women's feelings about sex life. When the son asked to know,
When a woman's genitals, she takes off her clothes to let her son observe her genitals and allow him to touch them. After that,
Teenagers look for opportunities to harass their mothers, sometimes rubbing their lower bodies against their mothers' hips, and a year later.
The boy asked to have sex with his mother. The woman doesn't know why her son has such crazy ideas. She thought.
My son was influenced by bad people, so I took my son to the clinic for consultation. "Masturbation is considered to be the depravity of adolescent behavior in China.
Performance, but also has great harm to the body. China boy never dared to let his mother know about masturbation, otherwise he would be severely reprimanded.
Responsibility. Masturbation is considered as "the second kind of sexual life" in Japan, and it can be done without a sexual partner or marriage.
Masturbation is used to solve sexual desire. Masturbation is not only common among adolescent boys, but also among Japanese girls.
An act. Japanese mothers understand boys' masturbation behavior, and sometimes even flatter their children's moderate masturbation behavior.
Encouraging attitude, individual mothers will also help their children masturbate. Mr. Mito mentioned this situation in his article Mother.
Women recognize that masturbation behavior of teenagers is scientific. But directly helping him masturbate is out of line.
The law ... in the eyes of teenagers, he and his mother had indirect sex ... one had two children 17 years old,
She/Kloc-the mother of her 0/5-year-old son regards helping her son masturbate as a task to avoid harassment from her sexually mature son.
Female classmate. She goes to her two sons' rooms one or two nights a week before they go to bed, and sits in the eldest son's shop first.
Hold the penis with your hand and knead it until * *, then sit in front of the younger son's bunk and do it again in the same way. two
None of my sons harassed female classmates, but at the same time they suffered from serious mental illness. If it is not treated in time, it is very likely.
To harass your mother. "Judging from various phenomena, sex education in Japanese families is not a subject, and Japanese families are interested in sex appeal.
Too open environment has a great negative impact on the growth of teenagers (Japanese culture, society, etc. . It's all about sex Bad atmosphere is very serious. I don't think China will be like this. )。 So Japan's sex and we look abnormal and the crime rate is high.
In other words, children should not be allowed to regard sex as a common occurrence, nor should they be allowed to avoid sex. Appropriate sexual knowledge should be taught at an appropriate age.
These are the major policies. I remember a video, which was an exclusive interview with Zheng, an educator in China. There are some examples of educational knowledge. Just look up "sex education" in Baidu Encyclopedia.
And ... . . Cough. Cough. . . Can this parent not be stingy with your reward points?