First, ideological and behavioral guidance. As parents, we should educate our children to love labor, be civilized, respect their elders and be polite to others. Parents are the best teachers for their children, and their role models are very important. Children generally like and respect parents who are educated, educated, studious, democratic in style, civilized in manners and harmonious in relationship. In particular, parents' interest in learning will affect children's interest in learning to a certain extent, thus indirectly affecting children's academic performance. When children grow up in an environment full of learning atmosphere, it is easy to sprout a demand for spontaneous learning, and even form a habit of conscious learning that is difficult to buy. Therefore, parents should take the lead in loving learning, form a family style and edify their children with their own words and deeds. The survey shows that many families of children with poor academic performance lack a good learning atmosphere. Parents often invite some friends to play cards, get together for mahjong, chat and go out to play online games at night. How can children study with peace of mind in such an environment? As parents, only by educating children from an early age, guiding them what to do and what not to do, and cultivating their good behavior habits can children thrive in the future.
Second, the improvement of learning. Some parents always use their busyness as an excuse and seldom ask about their children's study. In fact, everyone in modern society lives a tense life, but the growth of children is our hope. As parents, it is ok to spend 10-20 minutes every day. For example, after dinner or at the dinner table, talk to your child about the school, ask what you have learned recently, and then help him write words and recite ancient poems. Pupils have a good memory, and some things can be memorized and remembered for a lifetime. Parents can guide their children to recite as many words and texts as possible, or write a few math problems, or even read books with their children. This will not only enhance the intimate relationship with children; It can also help children improve their academic performance, and the benefits are manifold.
Third, the tempering of labor. This one is more important than others, because it is the weakness of every child. Nowadays, many children have poor working ability, rely heavily on their parents in life, and lack self-service and self-governance ability. The reason is not that children don't want to do it. In fact, every child has a desire to participate in family work. Most parents don't let their children do it, fearing that their children will be tired and afraid that they will not be able to do it. They think that their central task is learning, and everything else is secondary. In fact, it is to cultivate skills in labor and form character in labor. As parents, we should be willing to let them suffer and do something, so as to improve their ability.
Fourth, pay attention to children's leisure and entertainment.
1. What are the children playing?
2. How do children play? Who to play with?
3. How are the children playing?