Your values will affect children's values, and your attitude towards life will affect children's attitude towards life.
A father lost his job. When he came home, he didn't look very decadent. Instead, I went home and said to my family, "I will lose my job tomorrow, but it doesn't matter." In the past ten years, my boss has given me a lot of technical training, which has enabled me to learn an excellent skill. " With this technology, I can find a job quickly. I am still grateful to my company.
When a father says this, he sends a positive energy to his children, knows how to be grateful, always sees the bright side of things, and is always full of hope for life.
But another father lost his job, but he told his family: these bosses are really bad. When they need someone, they will ask you in various ways. When they don't want you, they will kick you away. He earned a lot of money by himself, but we earn that much every month, and now we are unemployed. It's really unlucky This world is so unfair.
What will the child think when he hears his father say this? If the father is full of complaints and has a negative attitude, then the children will definitely be emotional contagion, feel that the society is unfair everywhere, and the values of life will plant the seeds of social dissatisfaction. If his father does this more, the child may have anti-social feelings in the future.
Everything is education, schools are everywhere and everyone is a teacher. As children's educators, we must be careful what we say to our children. Children's values and outlook on life are the result of our example.