Some people think that if you want to cultivate a child into an adult, you must first improve his academic performance, and only by studying hard can you have a way out. So let the children start learning English at the age of two or three, and start learning Olympic Mathematics at the age of four or five. There should be tutors and remedial classes after school, and the results should be excellent. In the future, they will go to famous universities. It seems that only in this way can children become talents and parents' education succeed.

But practice has proved that this is a great misunderstanding of education and a bad result of exam-oriented education in family education; Education should pay attention to the cultivation of children's personality.

In our life, being a man and doing things is more important than exam results. A person who can read but has no personality cultivation is just an empty shell after entering the society and has no substantive significance. However, a person has a sound personality cultivation, and he can do better in dealing with people through his own efforts and get recognition and support from others, so it is very important to cultivate children's sound personality cultivation.

Measuring a person's comprehensive quality is not just about his grades at school! Because grades may only show that this person has a better memory, but it doesn't mean that this person must be excellent. Parents should remember that it is the original intention of education to cultivate a child with excellent and balanced abilities in all aspects!