Don't respond positively to children's unreasonable troubles. When a child cries because some of his requirements or wishes are not met, parents should never be at a loss. They want to gently and firmly adhere to their own standards and educate their children, but don't spoil them, because once children are allowed to combine their sobs with the satisfaction of adults and think that crying can be successful, they will turn crying into a way.

Educate children to express their emotions appropriately. When there is a dispute, parents should first adjust their emotions, calm down and communicate with their children. Guide children to solve negative emotions, educate children to correctly express their mentality, and let children understand what anger, sadness and happiness are. When he is angry, he says "I am angry" instead of using force or verbal attack.

Don't restrict children's freedom. If children are in the stage of playing, if parents restrict them too much, when children feel that they are not free, their first reaction is to rebel against their parents, or pout, cry and make noise. If you don't let me do it, I can do it, or pretend to be deaf and dumb, and be cold and violent to my parents' authoritative family. In that case, it will make parent-child communication worse and parent-child relationship more difficult. Therefore, parents should not restrict their children's playability and playability too much, and give them relative freedom within the controllable range.

Shaping children's interest in learning requires some skills to cultivate their interest in learning. For example, if children lack enthusiasm for learning, parents can gently discuss the future with their children and ignite their enthusiasm for learning with ideals. Children don't like reading. Besides being a model, parents often take their children to bookstores, public libraries and history museums. Give the children some space. When they learn to think slowly, it is time for parents to try to hand over the management power to their children slowly. Whether it is a family matter or a child's own business, you may wish to discuss it with your child. Leave some space for children, and don't interfere or infringe too much.