According to your description, a parent can't educate and doesn't know what to do. In the process of people's growth, many of them are the first time. Parents and children may encounter problems for the first time. I don't know what to do. The method I use is to read more relevant books, observe the way other parents educate their children and imitate them slowly. Because there is still a minimum ability to judge, as long as you observe carefully, you can find a way to educate. I hope you can be an excellent parent. Of course, if you feel that your parents can't educate you, when you realize it, you can grow up by reading, learning from your friends and learning from the role models around you, so that you can grow up better and become a better yourself.