I think we can guide children not to lose their temper from two aspects: skillfully using language and teaching them some stories and knowledge to control their emotions.

Our aim is to hope that the children will not lose their temper. As a parent with a student, I have a deep understanding of children losing their temper. ?

Children who get up angry are the most troublesome.

My family Dabao has just entered the first grade. From kindergarten to primary school, he adapts well and gets up actively every morning. After a month or so, I began to get up. It's hard to wake up for a while. He always says, I'm still sleepy. Can I sleep for another 5 minutes? I can't get up. I can't open my eyes. Can I sleep for another 10 minutes ... We can't get the right size at first, which means we need to get up. We're going to be late. Can you get up? It is not easy for children to accept not getting up, brushing their teeth and washing their faces, being punished for being late, and so on. For example, if we call him again, our parents will lose their temper. When they wake up, they will kick their shoes, close their eyes, get emotional and sometimes cry. They also said that our parents only knew that he said, he said, he said, he said, he said, he ..... This was just their temper when they were asleep. It's really annoying

? This is how we guided him to get up without losing his temper.

According to the requirements of the school and teachers, we must get to the classroom before 7: 40 in the morning, because it is not far from the school and we can go out at 7:20 at the latest. We discussed a measure with his mother according to the school schedule. My mother is responsible for waking me up in the morning, because he seems to be more resistant to me, and maybe the same sex rejects me.

We set an alarm clock to wake him up at 6:40, wake him up. He asked if he could sleep for 10 minutes, and his mother said yes, and then gave him a clear request: get up in ten minutes, get dressed, brush your teeth and wash your face, and if you can, sleep for ten more minutes. He said yes, yes, then let's set another ten-minute alarm next to him. The alarm rang, and it was time. He got up by himself and did what he had just discussed. Sometimes he says that if we sleep for another five minutes, we will satisfy him. Finish your own thing, basically between 7:05-7: 10, and it will not affect school at all.

Most children in the lower grades have not been able to live independently, and they still need more supervision and reminder from our parents. According to his bad habit of procrastination, we lose our temper when we can't satisfy him, so wake him up in advance and give him a few more minutes to satisfy him, stabilize his mood and let him control his emotions and temper. At the same time, it is normal to ask him to do the latter thing, because we agreed to his request and asked him to do it, which is also easy for children to accept and understand.

Tips to guide children not to lose their temper I also read some related stories and knowledge with my children through family education time. If the child doesn't understand, he will ask our parents, and then we will take the opportunity to explain to him, and combine his usual situation to let him know what is a temper tantrum and what is not. Of course, every child's situation is different, but as long as we carefully observe and study, we can always find ways to guide children not to lose their temper.