In many families, parents educate their children to be a good policeman and a bad policeman. In most cases, the father is strict and the mother is gentle. This kind of education does have certain benefits, which can quickly appease children's hearts after hitting them, but it also has certain disadvantages in the long run. If the father is always too strict, it will lead to the child gradually alienating his father and unwilling to communicate with him too much when he grows up. At this time, the child will only be close to his mother, which is actually a certain psychological gap for his father.

The especially gentle and strict education method has a big educational loophole, because if you are too gentle for your child for too long, then your child will find a gentle mother, not a strict father. In this case, there is something wrong with the way of disciplining children, because without the father's beating, the mother's love will only make the children develop a not particularly good character.

Educating children in the long process of education is a very important thing, and it is also a very long thing, which requires great efforts from parents. If the father only beats the child when he makes a mistake, but does not pay attention to the child's growth in daily life, the psychological trauma to the child is still great, so the father should not be strict blindly. Of course, the same is true if the identities of father and mother are reversed. Neither parents should always be strict.

The correct way of education may make children grow better, but this kind of strict education will indeed bring many bad effects to children. If you are always too strict with your children, then when they grow up, they will not be close to their strict parents, and the sense of distance between them will gradually widen. Therefore, in daily life, it is still necessary to maintain a friend-like relationship with children, not too strict and not too gentle.