1, the key is to cultivate good habits (good habits determine good life)
2, the environment is very important, you have to do it right (parents are children's teachers, and parents' words and deeds will definitely affect children).
3, don't easily form a bad habit, then you will find that the time to correct a bad habit will be twice or three times that of forming a habit; Don't introduce new bad habits to children because of short-term interests. For example, because children don't eat, you can turn on the TV for them to watch, so as to achieve the goal of feeding more (it is easier to learn bad than to learn well! Be sure to develop good habits of life and study for children.
4. Respect children and get used to empathy (we also need democracy for children and respect their words and deeds).
5. To tell the truth, when you find that some truth is not necessarily effective, you should pay attention to your speaking skills. You would rather say half, say diplomatic words and don't lie (hehe, it's true! If it will hit children, it may get a very different effect if expressed in another way.)
6. Say what children can understand. Mothers who are used to reasoning should be concise and clear, and avoid being like Tang Priest (now children's understanding ability is much stronger than we think)
7. Educate children to pay attention to skills, step by step, don't eat fat, and step by step; Understand children's current characteristics, and don't encourage them (pay attention to cultivating children's interests and hobbies, so that children can get all-round development)
8, prescient, knowing that doing so may cause children's strong resistance and compromise with themselves, then don't interfere with children, otherwise the final result will only be worse and not better (know the child's temper and personality, be a good mother who can understand the child).
9, eat, pay attention to a more balanced proportion, not too fine; /kloc-before the age of 0/year, children should ensure the amount of milk; Pay attention to three meals after one year old; If you can't balance all kinds of diets in one day, it's ok to mix all kinds of diets in one week (the most important thing is that the children are in good health)
10, children will not starve themselves (exercise self-care and self-reliance)
1 1, you must eat in the dining chair. Please leave if you don't eat (you must pay attention to cultivating children's behavior norms in daily life)
12, when going out to play is not as safe as eating at home, don't worry too much. Pay a little attention within your ability, such as choosing a clean restaurant; Others, such as whether there is monosodium glutamate in the dish, whether the dish is green food and so on. There is no need to worry too much (good or bad, as long as it is hygienic and healthy, let the children suffer a little)
13, calcium supplementation should be conscious and not lacking (more sunshine, usually pay more attention to diet, three points are toxic! )
14, not paying attention to clothes, not deliberately (let children know frugality and simplicity)
15, dressed like a mother (mother's dress will directly affect the child's dress)
16, dressed children, one less is better than one more. Children who exercise a lot and sweat profusely are more likely to catch a cold when the wind blows, and it is more difficult for them to get better (if they want to be healthy, they will be hungry and cold).
17, the child has a runny nose. Add a dress (usually pay more attention to children).
18, judging hot and cold, touching the child's neck, palm and sole (these are all accumulated experiences in life)
19, don't give the child a regular time, take small medicine at every turn. In the cold season, give your child some vc from time to time, or eat some fruit rich in vc every day (eating more fruit is easier to absorb than medicine)
20. When the cold symptoms are mild, if you just have a runny nose, you don't need to take medicine at first, you can pour more water; Most colds are viral, and viruses have no specific drugs. /kloc-just take the medicine for 0/4 days, and don't take the medicine for 2 weeks. Many times it is the psychological comfort of adults themselves (drink more hot water, sweat more, increase the metabolism of the body)
2 1, if you go to the hospital with a cold and fever, try to ask for a blood test (a cold can cause many diseases and must not be ignored! )
22. Can a person not get sick? Impossible; Therefore, don't panic when your child has a cold or a minor illness. Dialectically speaking, a cold is equivalent to an injection. There is no need to pay too much attention to this macro-inevitable thing (pay more attention to rest and keep warm, and you will rarely catch a cold)
23, play is not afraid of dirty (play and let go, don't let the children have any concerns)
24. Don't interfere with children's behavior too much without affecting their own safety and the interests of others (give children enough space to give full play to themselves).
25, let the children play, grope, don't break their heads (will learn to play).
26. Not all dangerous things are forbidden for children to approach; Within the controllable range, teach children where the danger is and how to avoid it (let children learn to protect themselves)
27. Give children as many opportunities as possible to experience themselves, and don't directly tell the results; Let him grope, bump and fail (only bump can grow and exercise, only failure can succeed)
28. Teach children to wait (learn patience, tolerance and understanding in waiting)
29. Teach children to be responsible for their actions (not afraid to do wrong, but afraid to admit it).
30. Teach children that giving and returning are two-way, and learn to be grateful (giving will be rewarded, thanks to all those who have helped themselves and those who have made progress).
3 1, try to sleep with your child as much as possible (well, what you say to your child before going to bed seems more acceptable to your child)
32, pay attention to protect children's attention and interest (this should also be well cultivated! )
33, cold training (cold will make people have the desire to "survive")
There are many methods of "early education" in society. When you don't know how to do it, don't do it, do something different; I believe that if you want to add to your crimes, you can always find the right way to educate your children (you can't generalize everything)
35. Children are children of society. Don't think too much of yourself as the savior of children, just (let children adapt to various problems brought about by different occasions).
36. Don't dwell too much on the reasons and theoretical basis of your own parenting details. Just do it, a fait accompli, without so much pressure (in learning, constantly improve yourself)
37. Try to ensure that one of the parents can play with the child for a certain time every day (don't let the child feel lonely, spend as much time as possible as long as you have time).
38. Try to make children laugh, and laugh several times a day (laughter can relieve the tension caused by children's study).
39, life gamification, dance academy (dance academy, perfect life. In the perfect life, dance academy! )
40, the most important sentence, I only need a child with a score of 70, so I only need to be a mother with a score of 70; Don't be hard on yourself, just get by. After all, it is the first time to be a mother (no one is perfect, so it is very important to do what you should do. Don't seek the best, just seek better)
4 1, teaching children to face failure, I don't have to accept it, but I can't afford to lose. I can choose to give up or attack again, but I can't cry in front of my opponent (failure is the mother of success! Men don't flick when they have tears, but they are not sad)
42. If a child attacks, learn to assess the situation, first tell him once, and then the basic principle is, fight if you can, and flee if you can't; When you are in kindergarten, you can shout loudly to attract others' attention (hehe, outwit-you can enter if you can, but you can't enter if you can't)
43. Don't hit people first (a gentleman talks but doesn't start work, he doesn't attack me and I don't attack, he attacks me and I attack)
44. No matter who starts first, you can't be the first person to cry (tell children that crying is the most incompetent and worthless performance. Crying won't solve anything)
You have the right to decide your own affairs (while enjoying your rights, you should also bear some responsibilities)
After 46 or 3 years old, introduce the mechanism of weekly allowance to children-start to learn how to do what you want to do with limited money, learn to open up sources, and learn to cut down on expenses (hehe, exercise children's good habit of keeping a house diligently from an early age and do the best thing with the least money).
47, often take children hiking, go to the suburbs, not afraid of the wind and rain (broaden children's horizons, pay more attention to the development of things, it will be very helpful for children's writing)
48. Try to go back to your hometown in the countryside once a year and lead a different life (let the children go through a hard time and be masters only after suffering).
49. Don't bring the troubles of work home (it can't be the same at work and at home! )