How to educate problem of juvenile to understand the physiological and psychological characteristics of teenagers by studying or consulting experts is helpful for parents to guide and change teenagers' bad behavior.
Communicate and interact with children often, respect children, and find out the root causes of various bad behaviors of children through communication and interaction.
Scientifically guide teenagers to correct bad behaviors.
Don't criticize too much when communicating.
Respect children, correct bad behaviors, and don't hurt children's self-esteem.
How to educate teenagers (1) about family problems? Pass warmth and affection, feel affection and care.
According to our statistics of problem of juvenile, 92% of students' families have serious family education problems: first, the only children of three generations are very fond of or spoil this child; Second, parents are busy with their livelihood or other things and have no time to manage, so they naturally become left-behind children in rural areas; Third, the negative emotions caused by parents' alcoholism or parents' divorce, beating up their children or emotional indifference; Fourth, parents are dead or missing, left unattended and wandering the streets.
Therefore, the growth of teenagers depends on family education. Parents' words and deeds can shape children's character, and most idle teenagers don't know their life direction. Because everyone thinks that they have only shortcomings and no advantages, especially the indifference of their parents makes them completely lose their direction and dependence, so they give up on themselves. I remember my student's name was Li, and my parents divorced when I was three years old. Now my mother is the boss of a company and my father is the manager of a property management company. I have never cared about him. My parents have been indulging their children to make up for their guilt, and finally they got out of hand. Because I have been boarding at Hechuan Zall School from elementary school to junior high school, I am the overlord at school and the emperor when I go home. There was only a large sum of money left in my pocket from my parents, so I made friends with so-called classmates everywhere, wandered around the society, played table tennis online and fought in KTV. Everything must be done according to what he says, and over time everything becomes unscrupulous. Finally, I was bored. I joined several people to steal someone else's motorcycle, which violated the legal bottom line and was sent to the work-study school.
Li's life experience is undoubtedly the lack of family education, and the family has no time and energy. Did not pay attention to the development direction of students' mental health. I sincerely hope that parents can give up the so-called business entertainment, put aside the grievances between husband and wife, set aside time to spend with their children, let him experience the happiness of family, and let him bathe and care in family affection.
(2) schools and judicial offices? Popularize legal knowledge and enhance legal awareness
Juvenile delinquency is one of the most serious social problems in China. In terms of quantity, the proportion of juvenile offenders in all criminal offenders has increased year by year, reaching as high as 73% since the 1990s. What do they use? Money? 、? Color? 、? Ba? Taking crime as the purpose and violence, intention and gangs as the main ways seriously affect social stability. At the same time, crimes tend to be younger, and the proportion of student crimes in juvenile crimes is increasing. Legal education is the most effective way to educate young students with problems to know and abide by the law and reduce juvenile delinquency.
? To strengthen the legal system, it is important to educate. The fundamental problem is to educate people. Legal education should start with dolls, and primary and secondary schools should carry out this kind of education. ? Comrade Deng Xiaoping's speech pointed out the root of juvenile delinquency and pointed out the effective ways to prevent and reduce juvenile delinquency, that is, strengthening education, especially paying more attention to legal education for problem teenagers. Therefore, only by strengthening the legal education in schools, making use of the advantages of schools and exerting the influence of laws according to the physical and mental development characteristics of young students, can young students know and understand the law, enhance their legal awareness and legal concept, and thus effectively curb juvenile delinquency. This is also the legal responsibility of modern schools, families and society for building a country ruled by law and maintaining social stability.
(3) community? Building a civilized and harmonious circle and purifying the social environment
Severely crack down on all kinds of illegal and criminal activities in the community, purify the social environment and create a good and relaxed environment for the growth of young people. First, make great efforts to clean up? Yellow gambling? And other social evils, especially those criminals who entice and abet young people to commit crimes, so as to create a good development environment for young people and curb the rampant trend of drugs and violent crimes. The second is to highlight the environmental improvement of entertainment industries such as game rooms and Internet cafes. It is forbidden to accept minors in the above places. Third, strengthen training and develop literary and artistic products and cultural activities suitable for the physical and mental growth of minors. The community establishes youth activity bases, regularly organizes young people to participate in various patriotic education, strengthens publicity and education, creates a good atmosphere of caring for the growth of young people in society, helps them understand the social harm of crime, and cultivates the spirit of self-esteem, self-improvement and self-discipline.
Teenagers are in the critical period of personality formation and mental development, because their world outlook, outlook on life and values are still in the stage of passive acceptance. Therefore, the guidance of family, school and society is very important. Preventing and reducing juvenile delinquency is a social systematic project, and the whole society should pay common attention to it, especially the families, schools, town and street judicial offices and communities of teenagers should conscientiously perform their duties, cooperate with each other, educate and transform every problem teenager, guide him to return to society, and help him complete psychological redemption and behavior remodeling, so as to effectively prevent the problem teenager from committing crimes again.
Cause: Beating and giving up are the starting points of getting lost.
The first step to get lost: running away from home
Expert: Children at this stage are generally students aged from 1 1 to 15, with the strongest rebellious attitude.
Over the past two years, in the communication with more than 1000 children, the deputy director of the Youth Research Center of China Academy of Social Sciences has been constantly thinking about the reasons why children leave home and summed up the trilogy of children leaving home:
Overture to escape
Q: What if some close friends invite you to play games with them in the evening, but you know your parents will definitely disapprove?
A: I know my parents' personalities. My father (mother) has a bad temper. They don't like me to play games in internet cafes. Ok, I'll just play at home and play with great fanfare. When my father (mother) sees me playing, I will fly into a rage at once. Of course I won't give in, tit for tat. As a result, I ran away from home
◎ Looking? I have to get the message out.
Q: Why do your parents always find you in those places (Internet cafes)?
A: At first, I would block the news, especially warning my good friends what would happen if I told my parents, but my parents couldn't find it even if they wanted to! But after all, it's not good outside, eating badly, sleeping badly, and not much money. Naturally, it is better to stay at home. So I tried my best to pass on the news, and it was hard for my parents not to find me.
Go home without being beaten in triumph.
Q: Will you be beaten when you go home?
A: When my parents found me in Internet cafes and other places, I just didn't go home and pretended to be scared? I won't go back for fear that my parents will hit me. ? It turned out that they were exhausted looking for me. As long as I promise to go home, I will become Amitabha, so my parents promised: I won't hit you, I promise! ? But next time they run away from home, you may never know. Who knows if they will keep their promise?
This is an expert and a person? Commonality? Children's dialogue. Experts believe that children at this stage are generally 1 1 to 15 years old students, and their rebellious mentality is the most serious. Once parents have mastered this problem and are not led by their children, today's children will not run away from home, and there may be fewer and fewer lost teenagers.