First, child-centered education is easy to backfire. Child-centered education can only show that parents care, but it can't prove that parents' education is useful and correct. Taking children as the center can easily turn into doting on children, which is also the most common problem for parents. Therefore, strictly speaking, this method does not have much effect, but it may be counterproductive and make children pampered and arrogant. The essence of education is to educate people, not to make children blindly arrogant. Although this way of parents can really bring a good educational environment to children, it is easy for children to have a feeling of holding the moon with all the stars.
Second, based on the nature of education, children can really grow up. If children are taught as the center in education, children may become arrogant, ungrateful and even have no sense of teamwork in the group. Therefore, if you want to teach your child well, you must base yourself on the essence of education, that is, you must understand what the purpose of educating your child is, whether you want him to be happy or happy to grow up. The two seem to be the same, but there are many differences.
The former only takes care of children's emotions, while the latter educates and helps children grow up on the basis of taking care of their emotions. If the former is for educational purposes, it may be difficult for parents to convey the correct view of right and wrong to their children in all kinds of education, because when children make mistakes, parents tell them to make them happy, but in fact he is right to do so. However, if it is based on the latter educational purpose, parents can not only effectively protect their children's fragile emotions, but also teach them a correct view of right and wrong and various truths.
Real growth is based on children's emotional and psychological health development, but not just for children's happiness. Therefore, in education, we should put education first. When children make mistakes, even though they may be in a bad mood and unwilling to listen to their parents' education, parents must pass on the correct view of right and wrong to their children.
Third, parents are also the main body in education. When two people want to grow up together, it is common to take children as the center when educating their children, but it does not mean that this is correct. Because in education, except children, parents are the leaders in education, so education is often a process of two people growing together. Children's emotions are very important because their hearts are very fragile. But parents' emotions should not be ignored, so in education, we should pay attention to the common development of the two, rather than favoring one side.