Never take a rough approach.
Adolescent children have great emotional ups and downs and strong rebellious psychology. Tough educational methods will only aggravate contradictions and even make the rebellious situation worse. We should speak with facts with a peaceful mind, convince people with virtue, and let children feel understanding and respect.
It is not appropriate to educate children in a rage.
When emotions are out of control, we tend to lose our minds, and the educational effect is counterproductive. At this point, both sides need to calm down and give each other some room to think. It is better to have in-depth communication with children after emotional stability.
Dig deep into the roots of rebellion
There are often some reasons behind children's rebellious behavior, such as family changes, growth environment, study pressure and so on. As parents, we need to patiently analyze, find out the crux of the problem and then take targeted measures.
Empathy is equally important.
We need to understand their feelings and needs from the children's point of view in order to better communicate and resolve conflicts.
Listening and encouraging are the key.
In the face of children's rebellion, we should listen to their thoughts and troubles patiently as friends and give them timely support and encouragement. When children encounter difficulties, we should be their most solid backing.
Seek external help
If the child's rebellious situation is serious, we can also seek outside help, such as the advice of teachers, classmates, friends or professional psychological institutions. After all, one more pair of eyes is one more strength.