1, how concerned. Children are very sensitive, especially at this sentimental age. More care can help you see your children's thoughts at this stage and help them in time. 2. More encouragement. Adolescent children, the heart of comparison is heavier, they will not only compare with their peers materially, but also compare with each other spiritually. Maybe if you talk casually about other people's children, they will have an indelible sense of inferiority. 3. More preaching. For adolescent children, their hearts seem to be in the bud, full of curiosity and looking at the world. At this time, they have a simple understanding of the differences and relationships between men and women. Parents must take the initiative to introduce the world to their children and correctly understand the world. 4, more cautious "control" children will always be children in the hearts of parents, but if you don't let go properly, they will always be children. They also have to experience the wind and rain themselves to grow better. Parents can't always control and restrain them, but give them their own freedom within a certain range.