Love is an intangible asset, and love is a precious wealth. Only by giving love to others can we get a better return. Don't take the way of love as love. Give them real needs, real love!
The fun of chatting with children.
Although he is a child in a large class, his language ability is poor. So I often chat with them, and when chatting, I find that many children's interests and ideas are in their hearts. I thought they were happy and had no troubles, but after chatting, I found that their young hearts also had many troubles.
Chatting with children has improved Mandarin, and children gradually like chatting with me. Through chatting, I know that they like cartoons, listening to stories, being good friends with people in the class and commenting on their parents. Children can talk and want to talk. But sometimes activities limit them and make them have no chance to express their ideas, so in the activity class, children naturally talk less.
Encourage more and criticize less.
For kindergarten children, it is their nature to love to play, and there are bound to be many contradictions between them, because every child is a little emperor at home, especially in small classes, with poor independence but strong selfishness. Many times, it is because of some trivial things that friendship education for them has not played a very good role. For children who are not serious in activities or have poor acceptance ability, our teacher's attitude is to criticize more and encourage less, so that children can't feel a caring mood. In this way, the enthusiasm of children will be reduced, and they will not catch up with other children in the future. No matter how children behave, they are innocent and don't know how to restrain themselves. Therefore, it is necessary to give children more love and attention, so that children can have a kind of love for teachers, so as to get along better with children.
Moved by the children, from then on.
Because I have been engaged in teaching for a long time, I get sore throat and shoulder when I get angry. When it hurts, I often twist my neck and pinch my sore shoulders.
One day, I went to class to listen to a lecture and sat for a long time. After class, I beat my sore shoulder with my book. Xiaoyun, who was playing, saw it and happily came to pat me on the shoulder and said, "Teacher, does your shoulder hurt?" I will beat you. "But the children are too small and the hands are too small to beat at all. At this time, another boy saw it and came over and said, "That's not true. This is not the case. " He turned around and said in a very sweet voice, "teacher, I am strong and I can beat it." Let me beat you. Dad often asks me to hit me after work and praises me for playing well. " I listened with a happy smile on my face. At this time, other children also gathered around. What did you say? I said, "teacher, I will." My mother was very tired when she went to work in the shed. I also helped her overcome it. " "Teacher, let me hit you. " ……
I suddenly found how cute children are. Gratitude has taken root in their young hearts, and my heart is full of enthusiasm. I feel that my shoulder has stopped hurting. I was moved by the children, and from then on …
The second article: The essay on teacher education in large classes is very short.
Many times, children's growth can't be separated from the guidance of adults. What's more, adults need to let go and let children grow up by themselves! Yaoyao in our small class is really cute, with big eyes. When he laughed, he showed two dimples. He is very shy. When the teacher calls his name, he always looks at me with his head tilted and smiles happily. When he came to the garden, his mother asked him to say hello, so he hung his head shyly. I don't want to say anything. I like to hide behind my mother's back, holding her thighs and laughing secretly. At lunch, he always eats so intently that he doesn't let a grain of rice fall and doesn't talk to others. As soon as he finished eating, he would quietly bring me the empty bowl with a smile. When I say you are great, I put a five-pointed star on him, and he will tilt his head and giggle. When building blocks in the outdoor expansion square, the children actively and boldly build blocks and other materials by themselves, while Yaoyao stood there timidly holding a few blocks, trying to build them but not wanting to build them. It can be seen from these things that Yaoyao is a very timid child.
Through the normal study and life of children, I think it may be related to the education of their families. So, at a parent-teacher meeting, I communicated with my child's mother. In the communication with my mother, I learned that when Yaoyao was at home, adults took too much care of him. Although he has an elder brother at home, he never trusts him to play with him. When building blocks, he never let go and told him not to mess things up, so that he wouldn't dare to mess around when playing. Although it is in the country, adults always don't let Yaoyao play with other children. Because there is a yard, he is only allowed to play in the yard alone, completely isolated from the outside world. Mom said that his withdrawn personality is related to their family's educational model, but he won't let go. He is always afraid of this and that, sometimes he is afraid of getting dirty, sometimes he is afraid of breaking things, and sometimes he is afraid of getting hurt.
So I think the growth of children can not be separated from the cooperation of parents. Teachers alone are not enough. Although Yaoyao is slow in school and can finish it, she is dependent when she gets home. Parents should learn to let go and let him do what he wants boldly. The "Outline" points out: "We should respect and meet their growing independent needs, avoid over-protection and arranged substitution, and encourage and guide children to strive for independence and self-care." Any child, because of the influence of parents' education and environment, has formed different personality qualities and abilities. Parents can take advantage of the situation, grasp the psychological characteristics of children in this period, and let children do what they can on the premise of ensuring their safety.
When children finish a job, parents should give them proper affirmation and appreciation. When children's existence value is affirmed and their working ability is affirmed, they will also feel extremely excited and happy, and their self-confidence will be greatly enhanced. Let children learn to communicate with their peers and express themselves boldly, which is definitely more conducive to their future growth.