Marriage and family

Family education begins with the establishment of a civilized and harmonious family.

Li Baoliang and his wife from Luannan County Education Bureau, Tangshan City.

Husband Li Baoliang, 43 years old, party member, director of the Vocational Education Office of Luannan County Education Bureau; Wife Qi Yaping, 43 years old, deputy director of Luannan County Construction Bureau; Son Li Jiaqi, 19 years old, is a student of Peking University Science Experimental Class. The whole family is United, harmonious, helpful and positive, creating a strong harmonious learning family atmosphere. Over the years, Li Baoliang and Qi Yaping have worked hard and accumulated rich experience in educating and cultivating children. From elementary school to junior high school, children's grades have been excellent. After graduating from junior high school, he was admitted to the experimental class of science in Hebei Province in Tangshan No.1 Middle School. High school academic performance has always been among the best, and he won the first prize of physics in Hebei Province in the national Olympic Games. This year, he was sent to a science experimental class in Peking University. I. Educating children to "learn to be a man" Since their children are sensible, Mr. and Mrs. Li Baoliang have always adhered to the educational principle of educating people. They should not only let their children eat well, dress well and learn well, but also help them to lay a solid ideological foundation at all times, set learning and life goals, and be useful people to the country and society. They let children get in touch with reality, participate in group activities, undergo various exercises and deal with various problems by themselves. In the cultivation of children's moral character, first, children should respect teachers and elders; Second, be generous. Children are often told to lend a helping hand when some of their classmates need help, and learn to be tolerant of others and not care about trifles. Students should care and love each other. The third is to have a good attitude towards everything. We should have a positive and enterprising spirit. I believe that a drop of sweat is a harvest. Second, educate children to "learn to stand on their own feet". They have cultivated their son's self-reliance, strong and enterprising thinking, independent thinking ability and hard-working spirit since childhood. When my son was in the sixth grade, his wife Qi Yaping went to work in Nanbao Town, the farthest from the county seat. She can't go home several nights a week. Her husband Li Baoliang works in the Education Bureau and often goes to the countryside. Both old people are in the countryside and can't take care of their children. This situation has been until the child's first year of high school. Most of the time, the children are alone at home, and sometimes they cook their own lunch. Objectively speaking, children must learn to stand on their own feet, and what they can do in life must be done by themselves, and they must try, experience and complete it by themselves. The same is true subjectively. Neither husband nor wife has ever missed work because of taking care of children. Even when children are preparing for the senior high school entrance examination, there is no extra concern at the most tense moment of study. In learning, children are also required to think independently and complete independently. Parents just help their children master scientific learning methods, develop good study habits and gradually form the ability of self-development. Third, cultivate children's self-confidence. Their educational philosophy advocates that good children are boastful, give them more appreciation, appreciate everything they have paid, appreciate the little progress they have made, and let them believe that they are the smartest and most capable children from an early age. When children encounter setbacks, they are always given more encouragement to make them full of courage and confidence to overcome difficulties. When my son was admitted to Tangshan No.1 Middle School and entered Hebei Science Experimental Class (Orsay Class), he was very anxious when he saw many competitors and saw that the children in those cities learned more than themselves and knew more than themselves. He was worried that he could not catch up with his studies, and his confidence was once shaken. At this time, the husband and wife will patiently analyze the situation with their children, find problems, and convince them that those children only attend various remedial classes in junior high school and study first. They are not at a starting line, and your ability is no worse than theirs. After the children's thoughts are stable, they catch up and quickly adapt to the new learning environment, and their achievements have always been among the best. Fourth, trust children and respect their characteristics. In the words of his son, they are "cordial, democratic, equal, respectful, understanding and encouraging". They always let children have a democratic, harmonious, equal and warm family environment, spend as much time as possible to communicate with children, listen to their opinions and understand their learning and thoughts; When children encounter difficulties in learning, they never reprimand them, but help them find problems, find ways to help them, encourage them to solve difficulties, and don't give up in the face of difficulties; When he succeeds, remind him not to be proud and keep working hard. As parents, they trust their son. As long as the child says he has thought of it, he will not interfere with his time schedule. If my son likes sports programs, the TV station will arrange NBA or football games on weekends, and my son will not watch them, because I believe he will use other time to make up for it and divert his highly nervous attention. Respect your son's own choice of learning content. When I was in high school, my son insisted on signing up for the provincial physics competition. The preparation for the competition takes up a lot of my spare time and energy, and I go to a university to do experiments every Sunday. Time is too tight. If you can't win the first prize, you won't be qualified to go to college, and it will delay the study of the college entrance examination and will inevitably affect the results of the college entrance examination. They advised their son to give up, but he thought he liked physics and had the energy to learn it well. Finally, they respected their son's choice. My son didn't live up to expectations, and won the first prize in the competition in one fell swoop, and got the qualification to walk the experimental class of science in Peking University.