At 2 pm on August 4, Mr. Wei came to the office of Shaanxi Guanmei Education Technology Co., Ltd. near Anwu Road and failed to meet the staff. "I signed a contract here, paid more than 30 thousand yuan, and sent my children for 6 months of closed study." Mr Wei said that his son Xiao Wei fell in love with the Internet. He didn't do well in the middle school entrance examination last year, and the effect of attending cram school was not good either. He wants to put his children in a closed school for exercise. So he found this training school in Hua Xu, Lantian on the Internet. After Xiao Wei entered school, parents were forbidden to meet their children, and a teacher was promised to look after them 24 hours a day.
Mr Wei said that Xiao Wei also wrote to his parents after he entered school on May 26th, saying that he would study hard and strive for progress. He also keeps in touch with the teacher, who says the child has made great progress.
On the morning of July 25th 10, my mother received a phone call saying that Xiao Wei was seriously injured and was being rescued in Xijing Hospital. When Mr. Wei rushed to the hospital, he found that the child was injured all over, with a broken jaw, collapsed eyes and multiple fractures all over the body. Hospital diagnosis showed that the fall from a height caused maxillofacial bleeding 10 hours or more, multiple maxillofacial fractures, left eyeball injury, optic nerve injury, bilateral lung contusion, humeral fracture and multiple lower limb fractures.
"A good boy was sent to school, and now he is injured and hospitalized. It is really unacceptable. " Mr. Wei said that at first, the school sent two teachers to accompany the children in the hospital and paid 65,438+10,000 yuan in medical expenses. However, the fracture surgery still needs 6.5438+0.5 million yuan, and the school will no longer bear it and withdraw the accompanying teacher. At present, the child's condition is slightly stable and transferred to the general ward, but the fracture operation has not been done yet. He is a temporary worker and can't afford so many medical expenses. I hope the school can save the children first.
In the contract signed by the two parties, the reporter saw that parents hoped that the school would conduct behavior training and quality training for their children's "online rebellion" to promote their children's return to their families and classrooms and develop good life and behavior habits. In the clause, the school has the obligation and responsibility to ensure the personal safety of students during the training period.
A person in charge of the school said that the school is a corporate operation, mainly doing outward bound training. The child fell from the toilet window on the fifth floor on the morning of July 25. After the discovery, the school quickly called 120 to take the child to the hospital. The school was surprised when the child suddenly fell from the building, because the child has been quite normal during this time. After the incident, a suicide note was found in the child's textbook, which read "I want to die, I want to die, my parents are sorry", so I suspected that the child wanted to commit suicide, and the police station in the jurisdiction also intervened in the investigation. The person in charge said that he can understand the parents' feelings, but hopes to solve the problem through legal channels.
"I just hope that the school will pay for the children first." Mr. Wei believes that the school should bear the responsibility for children's accidents at school. Regarding the suicide note, he said that he didn't know if it was written by his son, because the child's throat was speechless and he couldn't ask. Mr. Wei said that during the closed study period, he wrote three letters to him and his mother, all of which were very good, and communicated with the teacher that the child was very good and had been making progress. Mr. Wei can't believe that the child really wants to commit suicide.
On the suicide note provided by the school, the handwriting is very confusing. The date is July 24, and the day of the incident, that is, July 25.
It's sunny today and I'm in a mess. I am writing this letter because I have no place to vent my feelings. I hope you don't remember me, forget me, mom and dad. "Dad, I'm going to die. Don't think about me. I feel sorry for you. I'm too weak. I think this world is really meaningless. " I really miss you. I know you will cry because of me, but I really can't stand this world.
Xi' an, president of a psychological society, said that adolescent children are prone to emotional, emotional, willful, impulsive and immature, unable to control their emotions and have limited self-control. Parents and teachers should stand in the position of children and consider their psychological needs, instead of judging children from the perspective of adults. The child has encountered some accidents, setbacks and negative emotions. Parents and teachers should care and accompany them in time, so that children can feel care and love and avoid excessive behavior.
The director of a psychological research center in Shaanxi Province said that it can be seen from the letter that the child is smart, sensitive, psychologically fragile, lacking in self-confidence, trying hard but unable to control himself, and the family relationship is not harmonious. I hope the relationship between parents will improve.
The depression in the child's suicide note may be something happened at school, wronged, or frustrated in the process of hard work. I feel that the results of my efforts are not satisfactory and I can't face my parents, so I want to take extreme action.
If teachers, classmates and parents can find him depressed and give him timely attention and guidance, it may be possible to avoid the tragedy. Adolescent children are rebellious and like surfing the Internet. As parents, we should accept these behaviors of our children. Parents should first set an example in front of their children, and then love them together, which will create a good space for their children to grow up in life and let them grow up healthily in a loving environment and atmosphere.