Children's education should be both rigid and flexible. On the road of children's psychological growth, parents cannot be absent. It is important to relieve the pressure on children appropriately. Companionship and education will accompany them all their lives. They should solve problems with their children and become better people together. The following are the ways in which children's education should be both rigid and flexible.
Children's education should be both rigid and flexible. 1 With the broadcast of several parent-child programs, the funny experiences of several star fathers with their children also made the audience off the screen laugh, but after the laughter, we also began to think about a question: Is a young father suitable for taking care of children? The answer is yes.
Father education is actually very important (the importance of father education). Father represents masculinity and perseverance, and children can have more contact with their fathers, which has a subtle influence on the cultivation of children's strong personality. Under the leadership of the father, children can learn new things faster and promote their independent personality.
In the whole process of children's growth, carefree is not the best, and moderate adventure and attempt are also one of the important ways. If you are afraid of wrestling and taking risks, a person will be vulnerable to wind and rain when the children grow up.
Mothers usually follow rules or standards when treating their children, while fathers are more heroic and informal. They may not take care of their children as carefully as their mothers, and sometimes they wear their socks backwards, but as long as their children feel happy, who really cares?
Many young fathers have a naughty and playful little boy in their hearts, which is why fathers usually get along well with their children. They have both the responsibility of men and a precious childlike innocence.
Mothers will feel tired when they take care of their children for a long time. The father will take care of his wife at an appropriate time, which will not only make the children feel comfortable, but also make them feel novel and fun. When the father interacts happily with the child, the mother can also get a temporary rest.
Compared with mother's preaching or overindulgence, father is more patient and knows how to wait. They don't comfort their children when they cry. Fathers are better at keeping calm, finding out why they cry, and using this situation to help children understand their mistakes or overcome their fears.
In fact, when children are frustrated (frustration education method), mothers are even more unbearable, while fathers are willing to let their children experience challenges and troubles, because this will make them learn more. Although it seems that the parents are unreasonable, in fact, good medicine tastes bitter and is good for the disease. The unique way of loving children is also more conducive to children facing the real world.
Summary: Father's feelings are introverted. He misses the vast ocean, but they love their children no less than their mothers. On the contrary, they just hide in their hearts and communicate silently with their actions. If children and mothers can observe carefully, they can feel the deep love and gentle precipitation in their father's eyes when they stare at themselves.
Children's education should be both rigid and flexible. My son and neighbor Xiao Liang go to the same kindergarten and are good friends. They play together all day, read and write together, and sometimes eat in the same place. Adults in our two families take turns sending two children to kindergarten.
Suddenly one day, the two children stopped talking and didn't even look at each other when they met. I felt something was wrong, so I asked my son, "Aren't you and Liang Xiao good friends? Why don't you talk? " The son said, "Xiao Liang is not interesting enough. He and I are not good friends because I am lying. " It turned out that when Xiao Liang was playing football in kindergarten, he pushed over other children and they got into a fight. At this time, the son came forward to help Xiao Liang beat the child, and the child's leg was hurt a little. When the teacher found out, he criticized them. At this time, Xiao Liang said that my son hurt the children's legs, so the teacher severely criticized his son. My son said to me, "It's Xiao Liang, but he said it was me. I'll never talk to him again. "
I also feel that my son is very wronged. I thought for a moment, pulled my son to my side and squatted down myself. I said to my son in a calm tone, "Be honest, don't be impulsive, be patient and forgive others. You and Xiao Liang are good friends. It is right that you should help him when he is in trouble. But he fights with the children, and you help, is that right? " The son shook his head. "Xiao Liang said you hurt your child's leg. This is a lie and wrong. But maybe he didn't notice how the child's leg was hurt at that time, or he told a lie for fear that the teacher would criticize him. Good friends should forgive each other even if they are a little wrong. " Under my guidance, my son lost his temper and went to kindergarten with Xiao Liang the next day. Xiao Liang also took the initiative to say to his son, "I told a lie that day because I was afraid of being beaten by my father when I went home. I will definitely not lie in the future. " The son said, "It doesn't matter. We won't fight in the future, and we are still good friends. "