1, who is to blame for the premature birth of life and the loss of responsibility?
I thought it was an individual case, but it actually reflected the shortcomings of the lack of sex education. A woman in a university gave birth in the toilet and then left quietly. Many people will doubt her and think that she is irresponsible. If she doesn't want it, why is she pregnant? Yes, why, just turned 18 years old, one second I was worried about the mid-term exam, and the next I was going to have a baby.
In the final analysis, I still don't know how to bear children and what responsibilities I have to bear. Of course, the key factor is the lack of sex education, which leads to girls not knowing how to protect themselves.
Many professionals and organizations suggest strengthening gender health education for teenagers.
Premature love and early pregnancy not only bear mental stress, but also make the body enter the state of pregnant women prematurely, which is very unfavorable to the fetus and itself, not only irresponsible to the children, but also irresponsible to themselves.
When everything happened, my parents suddenly regretted it. Why do children encounter these things when they are still at school and become mothers? If his daughter was given sex education and let her know how to protect herself, wouldn't early pregnancy happen?
2, the concept of marriage and love is not clear, and feelings are hurt.
In the eyes of parents, children should concentrate on their studies. As for sex education, they will naturally understand it when they grow up. In fact, this is a misunderstanding, because when children don't understand this knowledge, they are easily injured in marriage and love, or they don't have a correct view of love, so they can't extricate themselves from puppy love and delay their studies and personal growth.
Especially in adolescence, the heart is in the bud, full of curiosity about everything, and the feelings between boys and girls are very subtle. Due to parents' lack of timely guidance and sex education, children are likely to try it with curiosity and make cross-border behaviors, which will affect their body and mind and cause serious consequences.
Whether it is a son or a daughter who lacks sex education, it is easy to act irresponsibly on impulse and do not know how to protect themselves. Once they have sex prematurely, it will not only damage their health, but also easily cause some health symptoms.
3. About the influence of sex education
Children are always serious about where they come from, so how do you treat them as parents? You may not know that it is simple to satisfy children's curiosity. If parents prevaricate, then children's curiosity will continue and may develop in a bad direction, so even children, parents should start to enlighten them sexually.
Not only that, children's physical development will be more obvious when they reach puberty, and children will also be curious about the opposite sex. These are normal phenomena, so parents will educate their children in time at this time, so they will treat physical and psychological changes rationally and avoid doing things that cross the border.
It is said that writer Zheng gave a condom as a gift when his son 18 years old.
Many people are incredible. They wondered how the fairy tale king could give such a gift to his children. In fact, what he has done is very commendable. He threw away his shyness, let the children know that he has grown up, and let them pay attention to health and hygiene problems. This is not only responsible for your own body, but also a kind of protection for each other.
4. Sexual enlightenment in kindergarten.
In fact, children are very smart. They don't know anything as we thought. On the contrary, at the age of kindergarten, their curiosity is still very strong and their imitation ability is good. So as long as parents use the right methods, children will soon remember relevant knowledge, such as gender discrimination.
If you are a girl, let's start with the difference between toilets. Little girls should squat in the ladies' room when they go to the toilet, and boys should not touch personal clothes casually. In addition, there are some special parts that people cannot touch.
When the other party makes intimate moves, they should immediately refuse, and so on. These mothers can tell their daughters by singing or telling stories.
In addition, let children understand that touching the body is not a game, so when someone uses the game as an excuse to touch the private parts of the body, they must not agree. Let her have this sense of self-protection since she was a child.
In a Korean reality show, China's husband Chen Hua did a great job in this regard. That day, the nanny will take her nine-year-old grandson to their home. Chen Hua's daughter is actually only over one year old. Even so, he reminded the nanny that the little boy and daughter can't sleep in the same room, and others don't understand and think the child is still young.
But he said that when he was eight or nine years old, he was already enlightened by men and women, and he knew the difference between men and women. Needless to say, the little boy had to kiss his daughter on the ground and share a room with her, so even when he was a child, he thought there should be no too intimate behavior.
5, don't say, adolescence is very important.
Girls are a little sensitive in adolescence, and sometimes they will be very emotional when they encounter things, especially emotionally. To this end, many parents worry that their children are in puppy love, which will affect their personal growth and studies. Therefore, as an adult, we must not be ashamed to talk about it, but tell her the dangers of premature intimate contact.
Wu Junru once said in an interview that when her daughter enters adolescence, she will talk to her directly, saying that you are not fully developed, and you are an adult, so you should not do what adults do. In terms of puppy love and sex, she didn't hide it, but told her daughter not to get too close to the opposite sex too early.
It is normal for young people to be ignorant and have a good impression on the opposite sex. Therefore, as parents, we only need to guide her well, especially in sex. Therefore, when parents educate their children about sex, then she will not be so impulsive and treat everything as love, which will easily hurt her body. Instead, she will face temptation rationally, will not go astray in the concept of love, and will know more about self-protection.
6. Don't ignore physiological knowledge
The phenomenon of adolescent girls' development is obvious, including the change of chest and the appearance of menstruation. However, due to physical differences, everyone's developmental retardation is different, so some girls with obvious chest development will be laughed at by others.
So as a mother, we should first start with underwear, let our daughter know that her life has further grown, take her daughter to buy suitable close-fitting clothes, and explain the reasons to her.
Its main purpose is to make her understand that breast development is a normal thing for girls, and how to choose clothes to protect breasts is a health problem, so there is no need to feel ashamed, let alone afraid of being laughed at and inferior in front of classmates because of this matter.
The second is menstruation, which is very important for girls, such as how to care, what to pay attention to in diet, personal hygiene and so on. Mothers should tell their children this knowledge so as not to be overwhelmed by her first menstruation.