For some key knowledge, visual memory training will be repeated, and even how to set questions in the examination room can be fully preset. For example, a single knowledge point test, a few knowledge points mixed test, and then practice according to the different difficulty coefficients of the test questions to improve their application of traditional culture. In family education, the basic principle of "temple calculation" can also be used. Parents must fully prepare their own educational opinions before educating their children. Different opinions derived from the same question will appear repeatedly and the order will be clear.
In addition, in the process of educating children, don't just preach verbally, you should find appropriate methods to anticipate possible situations, such as what if children don't listen to your education? What should children do if they object to your educational views? Only with enough "temple calculation" can we calmly and calmly make the best adjustment and reflection in a short time, and lead children to develop in a proactive direction and move towards more focused and effective learning methods. "Temple Calculation" actually wants to tell you that everything can only be carried out after comprehensive understanding and discussion. Being quick for quick success and instant benefit often brings disaster to yourself.
Sun Tzu's Art of War says that a good man is a soldier who defeats others without fighting. So, the soldiers went up to attack the city, followed by the enemy, the second soldier and the next one. It means to defeat the enemy without fighting, and it is the master of the masters. Applying this word to education is to let children treat obedience as a treasure, which is the most clear education. However, if children want to be obedient, "classroom teaching of violence" must be abandoned. A mother shared her life experience of educating her children.
At first, she frequently used the words "can't" and "can't" when educating her children, thinking that she raised her voice and made a cocky gesture. The child will obey her orders. However, this is not satisfactory. At first, the child just showed obedient appearance, and later he had rebellious psychology. What are you talking about? He'll go against you. We should make it clear that "violent education" can't get out of children's hearts, but it will constantly give birth to psychological states such as rebellion and boredom, which is not conducive to children's healthy and happy growth. So how do you make children take the initiative to obey?